http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/stopandsmelltheroses hi i was previously stef_the_mess, but now im not (duh) if you want to add me as a friend, go for it! I won't delete you! I love friends! So friendly!!! i love black AND bright colours, so if i had to choose between emo and scene, i wouldn't be able to decide, haha and now, you can quote me!(but really, who'd want to???) "I am probably the most undepressed person I know" May 15, 2008 with pookabear as my witness lol ╔═╦══╦═╗ Put this on your ║╩╣║║║║║ site if you support ╚═╩╩╩╩═╝ Emos-- --if you know where this sign came from, plz let me know! if you need a laugh: 1) search funadvice for 'i can turn polar bears white' 2)go to google.com. type in 'find chuck norris'. click i'm feeling lucky. i am a christian and a creationist. i play the piano, i write songs, and i want to be an author. im a bit of a drama queen, im a people person, but i love love love books (explain THAT!). if you want something wacky done, i will do it (i am totally shameless when it comes to embarrasment of this sort), and my dog has foul breath. okay, despite the shallow stuff, way deep down, i am actually quite deep. it takes a while to get there though. My favourite Bible verse: Isaiah 26:3- for you will keep in perfect, everlasting peace, (s)he who's mind is steadfast in you, because (s)he trusts in you. I like to know the 'why' of my religion, so please don't call me brainwashed. so far i havent found anything contradicting itself in the Bible. Praying for all you guys, and remember, even if youve done things you are ashamed of, all are welcome in the Kingdom of God. All you need ot do is repent, and ask God into your ife- its the only way. hope to see you there. God bless you all! en-us I think its like, damned if you do, damned if you dont. stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 23:31:14 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_does_this_mean_203509 352026 Okay, so why is he still your best friend? I mean, you may like some parts of his personality, but the controlling thing is like-- huh? Let him know that you have a life and feelings and opinions and other friends too, but your'e not going anywhere just cause you don't talk to him all the time. And if he doesn't like that, then he will have to get over it. I mean, if he tries to control you, and you stand up to him, what's the worst that could happen? Answer: You lose a person from your *circle* who tries to dominate you, and have you all to himself. ALthough he could realise what he's doing is wrong and try to change. But I really do think that you will have to sever your ties. stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 23:21:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/a_controllable_friend 352024 lil fun stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:55:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dreams_531 352005 NOOO!!! I'm still a virgin and I'm fifteen. Wait till you get married. stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:47:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/15_year_old_virgin 351999 to be nice to everyone. I don't always succeed. stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:34:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_you_want_most_in_the_world 351984 when you hurt yourself and people are like, 'are you okay?" or if you have like this huge cast on your leg and people are like, how's yur leg? stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:32:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/most_stupid_question 351980 its awesome! stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:28:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_you_think_of_this_song_i_16915 351976 @ nlocnil " I find it hard to believe how any intelligent educated person, can continue to hold baseless faiths. There can be intelligent theists, but I speculate they don't delve into their religion far enough to question its premises, or thought about it at length. " Believe it. There are many scientists who believe in God. And you theink HTEY don't delve deep into their faith? THey're scientists, thats what they DO!!! just a little example stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:25:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/for_the_atheists 351971 I have an accustomised dirty mind. like wheneve I say something, my friends are like that sounds so wrong, so I'v gotten into the 'spot it and stop it' mode stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:18:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dirty_mind_lol 351962 umm, okay tjos is quite a big topic, if you want to funmail me, I will tackle themm slowly. I can't tackle them in a flash, because I don't know all the answers; im in the process of finding them out. I AM only 15. But please funmail me and I'll help to the best of my ability!!! God bless you, Steph stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 22:02:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/questions_about_christianity 351951 I think you mean the cup you just drank out of. stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 21:41:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/random_response 351933 um, well my pants arent too tight, so I suppose its okay. you? stopandsmelltheroses Sat, 17 May 2008 21:35:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_think_5015 351925 Well I have thouht and thought my hardest, but no go. Sorry. stopandsmelltheroses Fri, 16 May 2008 05:57:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/creative_slogan_for_cambodia 350409 its annoying. its like, thats not you, why is it there? I dont care whether its of you or your cat, just put up something original! stopandsmelltheroses Fri, 16 May 2008 05:51:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fake_pictures 350403 fat romantic stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 08:37:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girls_only_138346 349544 if you don't want one of them to perish, then yes, this is a good idea stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 07:39:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_does_my_bunny_like_to_tease_the 349478 you probably need to change your eating habits and eat with them, cause they won't change (parents are too protective for that!), and therefore you won't get anywhere otherwise. stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 07:28:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/eating_before_bed 349474 im with brittany. I do believe in Jesus Christ, aka God, but not all christian people force their beliefs down others'* throats. I do tend to argue for my beliefs, but everybody does that. *somebody help me, where does the apostrophe go? stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 07:25:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_you_think_of_christianity 349471 oh, I forgot to say, I do listen to other rock bands as long as they aren't expicit or cuss, and another thing- my (Christian) mum doesn't listen to it because it has a bad effect on her... don't ask what, cause I don't know thats all she said, but she has no problem with me listening to it, I think. stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 07:07:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_s_with_christian_rock 349452 we were actually talking about that at school today, and my friend reckons it HURTS!!! one of the spice girls got hers done, but she couldnt sing with it in, so she had to take it out. bear that in mind if you love singing. stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 07:03:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_it_hurt_to_get_your_tongue_peirced 349444 you are probably just a really approachable and friendly person. 'just' being an innacurate word. my friend has this problem all the time, if you want, I can text her and ask. she'll probably reply in the morning, so, if you're that anxious... but my advice is, just be like, "I understand what youre going through, but I really need some time and space to myself right now. I can't advise you, but I do get you." be polite and res[ectful. I was feeling miserable when I told that same friend about it, and she totally blew up in my face because she was getting overloaded with other people's probs.! so just don't so that. stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 07:00:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_are_my_friends_telling_me_their 349438 odal just told me laalaa is taa taa. thx Stef stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 06:46:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/teletubby_joke_and_tinkywinky_s_sexual 349429 to me the most logical explanation is that they want to have their cake and eat it too. they want both people instead of being satisfied with one great person. bet you're glad to see the last of them stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 05:47:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_people_cheat_14537 349399 God stopandsmelltheroses Thu, 15 May 2008 05:17:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_it_all_for 349375 Eragon and Eldest (Christopher Paolini) I'm with britz14: Tamora Pierce's Tortall universe books are good, and so is The Old Kingdom Trilogy (Garth Nix) Evil Genius and Genius Squad by Catherine Jinks Cynthia Voight's 'Bad Girls' series Cliff McNish- The doomspell trilogy Marianne Curley's Guardians of Time trilogy is EXCELLENT Eoin Colfer- need I say more? An Agatha Christie is always good. try 'One, Two, Buckle my shoe' that is the most complicated and bestest one I know. Patricia McKillip's 'Alphabet of Thorn' and that's pretty much it. oh wait- 'the starthorn tree' by Kate Forsyth. stopandsmelltheroses Mon, 12 May 2008 04:58:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fav_book 346547