Is it too early for foreplay?

Asked by dirty_pk 10 months ago, 6 answers.

I am 15 and my girlfriend is 13 going on 14
would it be to early to do anything like forplay?
not saying sex me and her talked about it and we going to
wait till she is 16
but for now would it be to early to
do forplay? I would love to have you're...

advice
on this I just read the one about the 11 year even tho it was long ago
but yeah I would love to know what you think about that.

p.s sorry I dont use lil things its just faster for me

Answered by badgirlrach on Feb 01, 2008, 12:12AM
| 48 answers.

well its only to early if she doesnt feel comfortable with it so go but if you do end up decideing to have sex then use a condom

Answered by indirose on Feb 01, 2008, 02:40AM
| 69 answers.

lets not forget its agianst the law... when you reach 16 you can be prosicuted, put in prison then have a criminal record for the rest of your life, you will also be put on a sex offenders list, so think very carefully before having sex with a minur

Answered by pinkpearl on Feb 01, 2008, 11:00AM
| 1639 answers.
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It;s way too early, even if she DOES feel comfortable with it. She is a minor.

Answered by familycoach on Feb 02, 2008, 07:20AM
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Dirty,
You are a red blooded normal boy..It is very normal for you to want to do this stuff with your girlfriend, but for now just try and control your thoughts to where you don't constantly think about it..This will help you through the wanting to fool around time. She is still kinda young and so are you. Feel good about those urges you have and how normal you are, but try and contain them. This "foreplay" thing can really lead to more and you know that. Try and understand that you are the man, try and take the lead with some self control (I know that can be tuff) but try. Try and do things with her that don't concern foreplay etc.. Going to the movies..Skating..out to eat..hanging out with friends.
These things you are talking about will soon be in your life faster than you can even imagine. By you (and her) waiting will just give your normal feelings that much more time to live in that anticipation time..This is a great time for both of you. Try and concentrate on eachother and how much fun you have together..how you both get along..if you really have a connection (without foreplay or sex)Keep sending over questions if you would like and good-luck!!
Familycoach

Answered by darthornx on Jun 06, 2008, 03:55PM
| 284 answers.

ok indirose I would just like to say that you should check your facts... it all depends on the place, infact most places are 18. and even then if you are 18 or 19 and say they are like 17.. its not going to matter...those things slide because the age diff is like a year..if that. what this person has is fine when he becomes 18!! because I dont think it is 16 where he is, they will let him go through with it because its like a year diff. maybe a little more so its fine. plus even if it was 2 years apart or 3 as long as they dont get caught or reported he wont go to jail.(doesn't mean I am supporting old men going out with younger girls or vise versa..just posting facts)

Answered by misty363 on Sep 26, 2008, 07:13PM
| 219 answers.

If both of you feel comfortable with foreplay then thats fine, but it will lead to other things and you must control yourselves, sorry to say it again but 13 is young, know the facts and be careful of her feelings and emotions.

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