What if I like my best friend but she's a girl?

hey! Asked by jess_ie about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

I have a problem. I like my bestfriend. Thats not the problem tho. She is a girl and so am I. I dont' know what to do. I am bi but she isn't. I keep getting closer and closer to her and its getting harder and harder to handle what should I do?

Answered by escortagino on Sep 27, 2007, 07:52AM
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Hi: Welcome to funadvice. Your problem isn't as unusual as you may think. From your profile 1951 till 2007 makes you in your 16th year. Your body is still changing a lot. And part of that change has to do with becoming more than being. It is normal and natural at some time in puberty to be curious about the oposite sex. You are becoming a woman, yes but for right now you are in the process. Another thing that happnes to both guys and girls your age and stage of development is that you would like to examine and compair with each other. If the occasion arrises and if you are comfortable about it you can breach the subject with your best friend and go beyond the telling you suggest show and tell. No touching nessary if either of you are not comfortable with it. My other advice or comment is that it is OK to feel like you may be BI at this stage. In time you will probably settle on one or the other. But some prefer having there cake and ice cream too.
Good Luck
Gino

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Answered by richie2008 on Sep 27, 2007, 09:45AM
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My advice is don't do it with a bestfriend... Can either ruin your friendship or boost it.. Most get ruined.. Hint on things. But don't follow up unless she asks!!!

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Answered by funadvice on Sep 27, 2007, 02:35PM
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If she's not into girls, then you might just scare her off. Does she know you're bi? How does she feel about it?

Answered by jess_ie on Sep 30, 2007, 12:35AM

I am bi. And she knows I am! I have been bi for about 2 years know and just got out of a year and a month relationships. Im not bicurious! I know what I like.

Answered by misspeaches on Dec 08, 2007, 06:58AM
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hey if you don't at least let her know you will never know. and it'll eat at you. how bout you set her down and talk to her even if she's not at least you got it off your chest. I'm bi so I know how you feel.

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