Why don't guys find interest in me?

Asked by fau 7 months ago, 9 answers.

I keep on wondering why, no guys ever ask me out...
I mean, I'm not ugly or anything, I'm decent looking...
I have many guy friends and I'm also very sociable..
I don't know what... I'm nice, and funny...
is there something that I'm lacking or...

something I need to fix??

Answered by bruisejunkie on Apr 09, 2008, 05:25PM
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Maybe it's a matter of you being "too innocent"? I'm not calling you a total pansy, don't get me wrong. But maybe you come across as a little too sweet and innocent. Try flirting a little, but don't flirt so much that they'll think you're a slut. Be flirty and fun, but don't make it seem like you're just trying to get laid or something.

Hope that helped even a little bit, dear!

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Answered by xxaznrubberduckiexx on Apr 09, 2008, 03:43PM
| 39 answers.

Well maybe guys take you as more as a friend?
Try flirting with them if you dont
But to tell you the truth most guys are afraid to ask gurls out
Soo if you find someone you like ask them out once you get to know them
Good luck

Answered by theinjun on Apr 09, 2008, 04:04PM
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Maybe you're too intimidating for a guy to approach you...they might think you will make a big deal out of it and tell everyone in the school. And if you reject someone you will tell all your friends about how this ugly/loser asked you out and make fun of him. Nobody wants to be that guy...

Answered by danni2011 on Apr 09, 2008, 04:34PM
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no your definatly not ugly but think are you more of a tomboy cause if you are then guys just might see you as a friend I think you should give yourself a makeova Try wearing more girly clothes showin more of what you got ( BUT NOT 2 MUCH you DONT WANT 2 LOOK LIKE A HOE) then do some flirtin it should make them look at you in a way they never though of before SEXIII

Answered by jjjhehepoo on Apr 09, 2008, 04:52PM
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actually... I'm not much of a tomboy...
I'm such a girly-girl, with my makeup, hair, brandnamed clothes and bags...
and I'm not into sports either...
I'm like the complete opposite to tomboys..

Answered by girlfromga on Apr 09, 2008, 07:54PM
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maybe you have to many guy friends.

Answered by kasaness7 on Apr 09, 2008, 09:17PM
| 38 answers.

maybe your friends are too afraid that your out of their league and they dont have a chance asking you out...if you really like one of your friends...its okay for girls to ask people out too

Answered by informer_220 on Apr 10, 2008, 07:38AM
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I do think the o so many guy friends are a bit of a problem...I wouldnt want to hang out with 5 of my girlfriend guy friends...feels kinda weird...u can ask out guys as well... there is no rule written anywhere that says girls cant ask out guys... maybe your too bit of a girly girl (im not saying you are) or maybe one of your guy friends actually fancies you but you look at them as friends and they cant say anything because they are afraid of ruining the friendship

Answered by ameena on Apr 17, 2008, 03:29AM
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I think you should give it a little more time and never try to be a flirt.just be urself and not a fake because it's better that a guy likes you for who you are

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