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1) its best not to judge someone based on their past and give them a clean chance to prove themselves if you're going to be in a relationship. while you should keep in mind he's been in trouble with the police, a lot of people have and/or will be. don't let that decide whether or not you enter into a relationship with someone you think you can care about and who cares about you if everything else between you two works out just fine. you get along with this guy, he wants a relationship, and he values you enough to be jealous when he sees you around other guys (though that's not exactly the BEST thing, try to look for some positivity in it). plus, since you're going to college you'll be close enough to be together.
2) this other guy sounds more like a best friend. you don't know him as well, and you're not sure if he has the same intentions as you. you could talk to him more and get to know him and then at some point drop a hint that you're interested in finding out if he would want to have a relationship with you beyond friends. he may be closer now, but you also mentioned that you were going to college soon which would put you closer to the other guy in turn moving you a good distance away from Ryan. so, either way, you'll have to deal with some distance issues either now or later.
a lot of people have told you that the seond guy would be better and while that may or may not be true I think you should go with what you really truly feel. if you like Calum and he likes you, and you have no doubt about that, go for him. otherwise don't.
its obvious that calum is the jealous type and doesnt lie you taliking to other guys, if hes being in trouble with the cops, no woinder your parents dont want you to hang around with him as they dont want you to get in trouble with him, if your not tready for a serious relationship then I suggest that you speak to the both of them but make it clear that you are not ready for anything other than freindship, if they cant except that then you will know that there not worth while hanging around with



Which guy should I choose?
1. Calum lives an hour from me, my parents are strict and might not let me stay at his and he's bothered by how much we can see each other, though I think we could work it out as im going to college where he lives soon. He's really sweet & really really...
hot but seems clingy sometimes and doesn't like me talking to other guys in bars etc. Oh, and he's been in trouble with the police a lot, I dont mind but its not really a gd thing.
2. Ryan lives a street away from me so I could see him whenever. I get on with him so well and he is also really hot lol but I dont know him as well and dont know if he would want a serious relationship like calum does.
what do I do?