Where is my question?

I asked a question a week or so ago and put it as anon. because of the nature of the question and the fact that I didn't want my husband to read it and feel bad. (It was not about cheating). I looked under both fau and funadvice, but I can not find it. I...

would like to know how to find it.

Well, if it's not under either of those accounts, then it may have been removed. If it looked like a duplicate (eg, we get a LOT of similar questions in love & relatiionships) and it was marked anonymous, then it may have been removed, b/c we've already had that question previously.