What turns girls on?

ok...simply put...how do I turn on my girlfriend...get her in the mood? weve been going out for 4 months and have made out several times...but I want more! what do I do? im new at this!

Well, I like it when a guy is really sweet and says he loves me and whispers stuff in my ear like 'your beautiful' or something. You can never go wrong with being sweet!!!

There is really nothing you can do to get a girl to go farther with you. If you want more then she is willing to give then you need to respects her right to her morality. The last thing you want is to end up on the Sex Offenders Web Site because you pushed her too far and her parents pressed charges on you.

What turns a girl on is a guy who is genuimely interested in them as a person. The best way to a girls heart or body is through her mind. Often when a guy starts having sex he is sooo into it he concentrates on the mechanics and forgets to give attention to the person. This makes the girl feel ignored and regected unless the subject or goal of the night is sex. Remember women are into relationships, men are into sex. When it comes to be turned on men are like microwave ovens, women are like slow cookers. Men have sex to relax, women need to be relaxed to have sex. Listen to her. make sure you are giving attention to other areas of her life not just sex. PS techniques: A womans erogenous zone is her whole skin. Women have 100s more nerves endings and blood vessels over the sjin than men. that is why we bruise and hurt more easily. But also why we get more pleasure from touch. Erotc zones are those where the nerve crosses near the skin ie: wrist, inner elbow, neck, toes, back of knees, inner thigh, where bum meets leg. Breasts and genitals are very sensitive but if you go for them too early she will feel insulted and be put off. A girls genitals can be 500 times more sensitive than a mans (ouch) so careful does it. Everyone is different. You can only try and find what is right for you. Spend a whole day in bed exploring the whole of your bodies with no object than to find what works and what does not work what feels good and what does not feel good. Use a code "warm" "hot" "boiling hot" "cold" "luke warm" "freezing" instead of "NO!" "Stop" "YOur not doing it right" This is less abrupt. Also have a code word ie a color "red" "blue" which means STOP because it is uncomfortable or hurts. Also the girl should explore her own sexuality for herself. Ask her what her favorite romantic moment is in a film or what is her favorite sex seen. Who does she identify with in "Sex and the City" or who would she like to be more like. Good Luck.

You and your girlfriend are alone...
soft music is playing...
you reach over and grab her hand and kiss it...
look deeply in her eyes and say

Honey, what turns you on?

Don't say another word until she tells you something.

This is the stuff good sex is made of. If that does not work, you might want to keep you eye open for a new chick, cause maybe this ones broke.

SEX = PASSION X 2

You only lives once (at least that you will remember)
GED (Get 'er 'done)

send a note to her at school saying 'meet me after school'.now ask her if she wants to come over and tell her they have the house to themselfs.when you get there give her a quick kiss on the lips,sit her down a tell her to close her eyes,dim or turn off lights,light candals, give her a rose as she opens her eyes,start kissing ,get on top of her(make sure you have a condom on)slowly unbutton pants take off yours and start working it . trust me ,I am a girl and have had sex before.

ok...I don't think that after 4 months, and making out as the farthest you have gone...sex isn't in the picture
you can't rush her, if you do- she will hate you
ask her, tell her, kiss her, and don't do anything unless she says you can

touch her slowly. rub her legs lightly each time getting closer to the target. b slow and gently at first touching her everywhere then as things get going u'll have to find out if she likes it rough or gently(as in wild and crazy or passionate) sometimes you can tell or you might have 2 ask. DO NOT RUSH dont have sex untill uve masterd turning her on and finding out how she likes things or it will b a disaster.

yea my girlfriend gets turned on when I grab her inner thigh real tite also she sometimes has orgasms when I blow down her shirt and also when I cross my pointer finger and middle finger like little kids do when they play around and then I finger her real fast... she also gets turned on when I nibble on her ear or blow in her ear and also kiss her neck rub her vagina throuhg her pants/shorts

speak to her softly. romantic things not stuff like 'I want sex now' but something that compliments her and makes her feel good. do not try to over do this tho. as you speak to her dont completely hold her hand but graze it softly having the very tips of your fingers slightly rub against her palm almost as in a tickelish way. whisper into her ear then softly blow on and around it. stroke her face GENTLY with your fingertips. stroke from the side of her hairline down her cheek and across her chin and kiss her face neck and collarbone softly. run a couple fingers down her face and brush them across the lips letting the last trail finger to gently pull the bottom lip down only a little. slide your fingers down to her neck and use one finger to slide from one side of the neck down to the collarbone then to the other side of the neck. as you do this listen for any noises she may make like soft moans or slightly heavy breathing. don't make this obvious but check to see if her eyes are closed while you kiss and stroke her neck face etc. this shows shes obviously enjoying whats being giving to her. caress her curves and kiss her body and lips. gently bite her lower lip and slightly tug it then let it go and start to go lower on her body and kiss her breasts and navel area. softly blowing air around her body also helps. if you give oral caress her body then slowly unbutton her pants and do not go straight for the puss. fingertip stroke her innner thighs as you lower yourself to the floor and kiss her inner calves and inner knees. go slowly up to her inner thighs and kiss them. go back up to her face and hold it in your hands as you kiss her. then once again caress her face and go down and give her the goods. ask her to return the favor and when shes done lay her down slowly look into her eyes spread her legs and your in. that is if she wants to. do not use force ever.

you simply ask her what turns you on it's different for every girl maybe she is waiting for marriage, or to make sure you aren't just going to have sex then leave her you know? hang in there plus after four months you should be able to ask her what turns you on, or things of the sort

Simply just ask her to your place. Talk and try to make the subject kinkier and kinkier. This should turn her on then when she is kiss her. Make sure you have protection on cause my teacher once told me in industrial arts, 'safety fist'. Then start getting naughty. Try ejaculating as fast as possible this turns girls on. Pre-ejaculating is a good sign. While having sex make sure you're calling her words such as slut this really turns them on. Once you've ejaculated then tell her to go home and you'll call them in the morning. Follow my way and you'll be having sex as often as once every 10-15 years! Now dats a lot of sex.

Simply just ask her to your place. Talk and try to make the subject kinkier and kinkier. This should turn her on then when she is, kiss her. Make sure you have protection on cause my teacher once told me in industrial arts, 'safety fist'. Then start getting naughty. Try ejaculating as fast as possible this turns girls on. Pre-ejaculating is a good sign. While having sex make sure you're calling her words such as slut this really turns them on. Once you've ejaculated then tell her to go home and you'll call them in the morning. Follow my way and you'll be having sex as often as once every 10-15 years! Now dats a lot of sex.

be makigng out with he on a couch or bed and slowly put your hand under her shirt and make your way downward. if she puls away then get out. if she lets you then play with her a little

my friend what you do is kiss her on your bed...then get hard...then start grinding(moving up and down) on her twat gentely up and down with cloths on...then you kiss her till she moans... and when she moans keep it for like 30 sec or 1 min then try to take her belt off unbutten her pants then finger pop her... you have to b kissing her at all times even if your taking her belt off...then when you finger pop her go down on her(if you feel like it if not skip this step)... then you simply slip on the condom and stick it in and your good to go...

lay in bed just chill. thn gently grab her hand and look deep into her eyes, tell her how much you care for her. get closer...put your arm around her and rub up & dwn her back slowly. keep looking into her eyyes, smile. then go under her shirt a littletouching her skin. pull her closer, & whisper in her ear...gently stroke the side of her face and lift her head up. kiss her softly, thn when you feel rite make out. touch her body more. take off your shirt. start taking off hers. pull her closer rub her body, kiss her stomach..start going lower.kiss her low stomach and softly blow on her skin... un button her jeans, take em off! kiss the insiside of her thigh slowly! moving closer to her pleasure spot. when you get real close come up over her body and kiss her neck! I bet she'll b breathing real hard, rub her body & put your hand dwn thr & finger her good!! just play around, do what you want in the moment...take it slow & touch her gently, kiss her evrywer softly..make her anticipate & REALLY want it! thn just go for it!!

well
I love having sex.
but I like when a guy fingers me.
It's sexyy
n
When a guy rubs my boobs and butt
in a nice way.
I LOVE IT
it really turns me on (:

WELL IM DEFFINATELY NOT TURNED ON WHEN GUYS JUST ONLY TALK ABOUT SEX YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS AND NOT ONLY THINK ABOUT THE SEXUAL PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP... IF you MAKE THE GIRL COMFORTABLE WITH YOU THEN SHE'LL BE MORE LIKELY TO

awww... lol//

OMG WHAT ARE YOU LOT ON ABOUT!!!
to turn a girl on you kiss their neck and other places baby

OMG WHAT ARE YOU LOT ON ABOUT!!!
to turn a girl on you kiss their neck and other places baby

OMG WHAT ARE YOU LOT ON ABOUT!!!
to turn a girl on you kiss their neck and other places baby