Is it normal to think like this?

Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year and a half now, and im only 15. and things have been happening with us lately, and I talked to a few close friends about it, and they baught me condoms. and I feel really weird having them,...

and kind of perverted. but at the same time, I think its a good idea to have them, just in case anything ever happens. so is it normal to think like this? I feel so weird having condoms, but if anything ever gets that far, I want to have protection. what do I do? do I keep them, and just deal with feeling weird? or throw them out, and just not let things get that far? im confused about it. and im only 15, and I realize its young for that. but I also realized that its pretty easy to get carried away with these kinds of things. any ideas?
thanks

If you feel that condom is "weird" in your wallet I think it is better not to hold it with you. Finally, you may put a condom in a half year old boy"s diaper, it will not explode, but absolute unnecessary. If you do not feel the possibility of a penetration in the near future, a condom in his pocket is just a swagger. I think you have a classy style.

keep a few in your wallet or summin, because if it DOES happen and your NOT protected you are screwed. so its just a precaution and it's not perverted, I dont think so anyway.

you are young for sex but if it does hapen keep the condoms

Better to be safe than sorry. Most 15 yr old males are very horny. At least the ones I knew were!

thanks. its not that im horny, right now sex isnt whats on my mind when im with her. I really care about her. and I know her, and I know she doesnt want to have sex. but lately it seems like she kind of wants to. and, im not looking for sex, but if the moment happens, then im not going to say no. so I want to be safe. but like, if my parents ever find them, then im dead. and I think if she finds them she might get mad because she thinks that I want to have sex. so I don't know. im just confused about it.

keep them in your wallet cause if it does happen your screwed. and if she finds them tell her the truth or if you can think of a lie thats better than the truth and is believable then use that otherwise dont let your parents find em.

You are sending the signal that you and your G.F. are not ready for such a leap into the deep end of the pool. Put the condoms away in your bedroom somewhere safe. Like under the mattress or taped under a drawer; In a year or so you may be ready and if your G.F. realy wants to then you will both know that it is time. No need to rush into it just because your buds think it is cool.
Best to You both

Gino

just keep them on you! I got pregnant when I was 15. just keep the condoms on you! it's better to have them bc you never know what might happen! just make sure you use them! and maybe if ya'll do want to have sex talk about it first so she can get put on birth control! just be safe what ever you do!

beth

thank you everybody for your opinions and help.
but I still dont know. I know that I should try to stay safe, because the last thing I need right now is to have a baby. not to mention my dad would kill me. and then her dad would kill me. and I have 3 younger sisters, and I know its a big hassle. but I also dont want to have sex right now. im only 15. but I realize that when things are progressing like that, its easy to just go with it. and im not stupid, if the moment comes, I am going to need protection. but maybe, if anybody knows anything that me and he could do instead of having sex, just something new to do while kissing, or anything of that sort. because I get a feeling she might be kind of bored with the things me and her do, but I dont want to have sex. so does anybody have any ideas?
again, thank you all for your time and input. its appreciated!

I really like the idea of taping them underneath a drawer -- that way you can find them if needed , and it would be very difficult for anyone else to find them. I don't think you need to carry them with you, especially since it is making you uncomfortable with yourself. - If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing and that's fine - actually not just fine- it's GREAT! because you really are too young and it's cool that you are mature enough to realize it. Bubux said it best - you have a classy style!
As far as suggesting other stuff you guys can do, as the mother os an almost 15 yr old (you gave me some good advice about him, lol), I just cannot do that, lol... I wish you well and hope you continue to grow into a fine young man.

ok, well then I guess I'll do that. I'll have that feeling that nobody will find them, which is good. yeah, I really dont want to carry them around with me, I would feel very awkward with them. oh, well thank you very much for the compliment. I appreciate it. and im glad you liked my advice. ok, well thank you for your help, and compliments!