Should I wait or move on?

Okay so theres this one guy, I have dated for at least near four months right? and he's my religion so I dont have to feel pressured into doing anything...which felt great and he also did take control over the relationship well sorta lol...and I liked...

that in him cause instead of feeling like I was being rushed there was times where he said not to kiss him cause he wants to take it slow and he felt like we were going too fast so I said okay and tried not to do it cause I was just a lil tempted but of course I loved him like I havent loved anyone else before so I was willing to do whatever I can just to make sure that we would always stay together...then after a while I guess he heard some stuff from his family and friends saying maybe dating me wasnt such a good
idea or whatever so he dumps me...

and then sometime in this year he had a asthma attack and I got a call from one of his ex's telling me that but thats all cool cause me and her are really close so I'm going OMG! I hope hes okay...and everything right? so I end up calling the hospital, me and him talk for hours on the phone and our conversation was about getting back together again but he wasnt sure yet so he put it on hold for a while...then he goes out wtih this other girl (Kayla) I didnt like her so much cause of how she treated him but it wasnt so much that I was jealous cause I wasnt I just wanted him to be happy but after I saw that I wanted to tell her off cause there is no way she deserves a guy like Scott (my ex) so one night me and him go to this so called "kick back" place but me and him didnt really do anything we just hunged out and that was about it...

so I end up getting upset cause I miss having him as a boyfriend so he askes me whats wrong so I tell him and he says that he was willing to do anything just to see me happy again cause he cant stand seeing me upset but I said no cause I didnt want him to cheat on his girlfriend just because of me and I knew she didnt like me quite so much so I tried to show her the respect even though I was tempted to but I was trying to do the right thing right? and then he stops dating her but I letted him know ahead of time when he figured everything out and gets single again let me know whats going on between me and him so me and him are both single now...

but theres this other girl he knew ever since kidergarten but he didnt start having feelings for her until four years ago he kept asking her if she wanted to go out with him but all he would get is an "I dont know" but she has also said that she feels like she should but shes just not sure if she wants to...so hes like okay then a couple months go by and the same thing repeats over and over again right? and recently about a few weeks ago he asked if she would like to date him she thought about it and said yes..but she was thinking just dating but not really going into a relationship so he got crushed right? and so now its back to square one again and I want to go back out with him more than ever but I dont know the kind of feelings he has towards me and I'm tired of asking him and I feel like I'm going to bug him and like what everyone says "patience is a virtue" right?

so I'm wondering since he did say I should move on before if I should do that, or just wait for him? cause I really really do love him and I always want to be with him forever and ever...until death does us both apart...and tonight I went to church right? and we're worshiping God and everything and there was this one part I really liked it went "Forever my love, Forever my heart, Forever my life is yours.." and during that part it reminded me of how I feel about him so now I'm anxious more than ever to get back with him and I feel impatient...what should I do?

I dont know how old you are, but you sound pretty young so I just want to say for you to NOT wait for any boy; it may not seem like it now but there will be other guys. Other guys you fall in love with, other guys you feel like you're "meant to be with", and other guys who will sweep you off your feet. It's a crime to sit around waiting for anyone, never make someone a priority if you're just an option to them. That one guy will come where nothing you could do would make him leave you alone, he'll want you, love you, and there will be no issue of "other girls". So, wait on that guy, wait on prince charming, bc he's coming and you dont want to be so consumed with Scott that you dont see your prince. Also, it sounds like an unhealthy obsession with this Scott and you should try to move on and keep your options open.

that song you heard in church, wasn't that 'forever my love, forever my heart, forever my life is yours' to God and not Scott? You said you were religious, so you probably know that God is a jealous God and if there's anything you're valuing more than Him and paying more attention to and giving more time to, you're in danger of Him snatching it from you. He often will eliminate all our options until we have no other choice but to love Him back the way He wants to be loved. He wants you to feel as passionate and in love with HIm as you are about Scott.

You are nothing more to him, than just a backup. If he liked you in the right way, he would be putting you first in his life, not trying to get involved with all these other girls. "Dont make someone a priority, when your only their option"

ya it doesn't sound good. You seem to be a good girl but if he was the right one for you, he would have chosen you instead of those oher girls. One thing im sure about is that you never wait for anybody. because before ou know it a couple years go by and you still don't have him and your standing there going what the hell. happend to me, tried hooking up with a girl for a couple years, we dated when we were younger. And she kept telling me that one day we might hook up and she kept dating other guys. she just wanted me as a backup. the last talk we had was a couple weeks ago and I asked her straight up, do you ever plan on dating me, yes or no. And she said she couldn't answer because she didn't know how things would be down the road, im never talker to that girl again, f*cked my life up. I Suggest you just forget about him before he causes you more trouble.