What do I do when I like another man?

I do have a boyfriend to love. But there is another guy that I have been into now. It is crazy. I am going insane. My boyfriend's name is Jace. The guy that I am really really into now is Bryan. I don't know why. Bryan is having a divorce from his wife...

Amber. I didn't cause them to divorce. It was her that caused the divorce,because she went after another guy. But I have been thinking about Bryan a lot and even having dreams about Bryan. I don't know what to do. Should I break up with my boyfriend or not just because of my feelings for another guy. What should I susposed to do. I have been leaving Bryan alone because of his divorce from his wife. What should you think that I should do about my feelings for him? Am I crazy or insane? I am not trying to be obessed about this. But what should I do about my feelings for Bryan. I am going out of my mind. I am completely insane about this, am I. What should I do? I am desprately crazy. What should I do about my feelings for Bryan? How do I talk to Jace about or don't tell Jace. I know that choices have to be made here. But how do I do that. I am falliing for a divorce guy. What should I do about that???

Clearly you are confused and its making you crazy thinking and obsessing about it. The right thing to do now is leave Jace, becos its not fair you are with him and have feelings for someone else. He deserves to be with someone who likes only him, so let him go, it may hurt him now but be better in the long run. You dont have to tell him about the other guy, you can just tell him that you are feeling a bit lost and confused about how you feel and need some time to yourself to work things out.
Then take that time out to be their for Bryan and support him thru his divorce and see if anything develops, but the most important thing here is to take some time out by yourself to work out exactly how you feel and then go for it.

Why do I feel so stupid about the whole thing? I feel stupid stupid stupid. Why did I get myself into. I am scared about what will go on next. How do I not let this pressure go through. I am still so confused and going out of my mind. What do I do? I do feel like that I am so misplaced. I have a friend named Nancy Tipton and she is saying not to break up with Jace right now. I don't know if that is the right thing to do.What do I do in this type of situation? This makes me nuts. I know that I still having feelings for Bryan. I am trying to work it out. But how will this ever end up knowing where I am susposed to be in this kind of relationship. I just wish this would be easy. But it is not,because it is so hard to. What else can I do about this. I am being honest with this one. What can I really do????

Its ok to be confused but what I am getting from this is that you dont want to leave Jace becos if it doesnt work out with Bryan you dont want to end up alone and have Jace to fall back on, this is not fair on Jace. He deserves to be with someone who loves him only, and even tho you may have feelings for him you also have feelings for Bryan, and you wont be able to work anything out if you are attached to Jace, so you really should leave Jace and let him go. Then spend some time alone to work out what your really feeling without having to worry about Jace, you are free to pursue whoever you like and if it turns out that things work out with Bryan you can give it a proper go, if you realise its Jace you've wanted and made a mistake then talk to him and see if he is willing to give it another go. But dont ever say its becos of another guy because you'll lose him altogether, you just need some time to yourself, thats the best solution here becos being with someone and liking someone else is driving you crazy, you need to make a change and fast!

I disagree a tad bit with locoluna. Just a tad. Everything else, she hit remarkably on the spot.

But, being honest is the way to go. Sure, a girl should have her secrets. But in a relationship, there shouldn't be any secrets. Everyone is going to end up hurting someone one way or another. So let Jayce know your feelings and if he gets angry.. well how do you expect him not to be angry? Leave it alone. You were honest and you're going to try to get it on with Mr.Bryan over there