What should I do about my boyfriend and porn?

Asked by honey2700 about 1 year ago, 3 answers.

I'm just so tired of all the false promises he's given me. I never believe him anymore. Sometimes he tells me I have a perfect pussy while we have sex but how can I believe this when he looks at other women? The arguments we have are always about him...

watching it behind my back every day and night on the computer and on the satellite. He even downloads pornos. Then when it comes time for me he's not interested. Then he tells me it's because I act like a kid and won't let him do what he wants like I'm his mother. I should let him watch porn whenever he feels he wants to and I should shutup and wait for him all day for when he's ready to have sex. This has also ruined our sex life. I can't have sex because I hate the way I look and I just picture all those girls he looks at. I flinch when he tries to touch me, I'm barely in the mood anymore. How can I be when he uses me to c*m after looking at those women all day. I've told him how I felt 100 times I poured my heart out to him I told him I can't have sex if he keeps watching it and he's says I'm making it up and I need to grow up because everybody does it. It's been getting worse over the years if I care about this so much and he just makes jokes about it when I'm telling him about the way I feel should I just leave him? He always talks about Jenna Jameson and this other bimbo more then he talks about me and when I ask him why he has to say stuff like that to me he says why not then I explain it hurts me and he's says so at least I get to see big boobs. It's not even the porn anymore the how he has zero respect for me that he makes jokes about it pushes pictures in my face and tells me to get over it. I love him but I don't see him changing he just blames it on me saying maybe if I'd do what they did or look like them he wouldn't have to watch it. Please help me.

Answered by moralturpdtude on Apr 13, 2007, 07:09PM
| 129 answers.

Unfortunately men like him will not be ashamed. I can almost guarantee you that he is online cybering with other women also. I used to surf chatrooms to chat, which no one does anymore and I had so many men hitting on me and would proudly tell me they were married. That is emotional cheating. You deserve so much better and I promise you and everyone else, there is that right person for you.

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Answered by escortagino on Apr 12, 2007, 10:50AM
| 393 answers.

Dump the dog, He is an adict. He needs help that you are unable to give him. If you consended to every demented and erotic act that he has seen on the porn you will still not measure up to the fantasy in his mind. Don't lower yourself to that level. Get out of the relationship and get on with your life. His lack of respect for you has lowered your self respect. You have told him how it makes you feel now show him that you ment it. No further explanation is needed. Just D you M P D A D O G ! ! !

Answered by 502whatitdo on Apr 12, 2007, 09:52PM
| 8 answers.

sometimes, a little porn is something that is easy to deal with, but this sounds like a huge problem. tell him if he doesnt stop, you will never give it to him again. also, you should try making him feel ashamed. I know that sounds awful, but hell, what he does is awful.

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