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It sounds just like you two aren't compatible. My boyfriend is very quiet, does NOT have the "gift of gab". I do. But we still are able to understand and communicate and converse with each other every day. He is expressive in his own ways that are different from me.
I used to be in your boyfriend's shoes. I thought that because a guy didn't talk as much as me or wasn't as expressive as I was, that it meant he was boring or had no imagination or nothing to say. The years have taught me how wrong that line of thinking is! I had to look outside of myself to understand people's expressiveness that differed from mine. It was actually a very selfless thing to learn to do.
So I'd say to you that this problem is on your boyfriend. He hasn't learned to understand the different ways people express themselves yet. Maybe you are very shy and quiet and yes, you should try to work on that and express yourself a bit more. But that has to come to you with more age and wisdom and it will come.
Tell your boyfriend that you are working on it and that he'll just have to be patient with you. If he keeps drilling you about it, then hit the road. No one needs someone harping on them because they can't change fast enough.
well to backfire on most of these comments you could try to write him letters talking about..I dont know how your day was and how much you care for him (kind of childish but im a boy and I guess most girls dont know much but it really does help when a girl opens up to him) you could tell him to ask you questions..maybe he wants to know one specific thing that you have done but you havent told him...ask him whats wrong.



What questions should I ask my boyfriend?
my boyfriends says I dont really say much because I've ran out of questions to ask him he also says he doesnt really know me that much because he sayz I dont really express myself as much so what can I do to fix this problem before it ruins our relationship