What if jeff and i want to go all the way?

I have been wondering about this a lot lately. I don't want to put Jeff on the spot like this. I have always been a good vibrant woman. I know to save sex before marriage. I didn't want to say this to anybody in my family. What if Jeff and I want to...

have sex? I don't know why that is on my mind. I don't know why that I don't feel so comfortable for saying this. I really have fallen so deeply in love with Jeff so much. Jeff feels the same way too. I was thinking a lot about this long and hard. What if Jeff and I are ready to have sex? We already know that we do love each other a lot. What would be the answers to all of this? Hope I know that I am doing the right thing and not the wrong. I am being so honest. I do know that it is his and my choice together if we do want it. What should I do if Jeff and I do want sex?

Saving sex for marriage is an old fashion form of birth control.(ok so it's also a religious thing...) Think about it. A loooong time ago in the bible before christ there are LOTS of stories of people having sex and them not being married. And the stories don't always portray this as bad. Now in the new testament there is hardly any stories of people having sex and when there is it is regarded as evil and lustful.

Anyways... to my point. They didnt have birth control then and children out of wedlock was seen as a very bad thing. So they brought on the "saving sex till marriage" thing.

I personally am agnostic. I say do what you want. If you want to have sex, have sex. If your families are highly religious just keep it secret and make sure you have birth control so that it STAYS a secret. Decide between the two of you so that when that moment comes neither one of you is offended.