Do you think he's really gay because of this?

Okay, there's this boy I like (if you read my last question, you will know who). Up until last night, I was sure he was straight. but my friend thought he was "closet gay," or "closet bisexual." I don't if he is...but the reasons my friend thought he was...

seemed...slightly...legitamate. I reallly hope he isn't, but I don't know...
The reasons my friend thought he was gay/bi were:
he has a slightly high-pitched voice
he touches guys a lot (like on the shoulder, or back)
he always has grease in his hair (someone told him that only gays do that...I don't know if it's true)

please tell me what you think, and what I can do if it is true!

What the hell? Gay men and women are just like me and you, their voices aren't higher, greasy hair is NOT a sign of being gay, and just because he touches other guys does not make him gay.

But then again, he may be gay. Try asking him?

it would be an awkward question to ask.

the only way you would know is if you ask... it might seem akward, but you really want to know, so get the truth from the main source.. anyhow... either that or he is just super metro sexual. goodluck! funmail me with any questions?!

haha just becuase he shows signs of being gay does not mean he is. I think the majority of my guy friends have touched eachothers sholders hey some have even grab another around the waist. Also hockey boys are the worst for touching eachother. If he has a high voice still it means he is going through purberty like most boys do at his age and a lot of non gay guys wear hair gel. I sugest trying to ask his best friend if your not comfortable asking him right away or even wait it out for awhile and jsut be his friend before rushing into something anyways good luck

I can't believe I'm saying this, but I agree with morbid.

Sorry morbid.

haha, this is not enough proof to say for anybody he is gay. If you will see him kissing with an other boy, than that will be enough.

God forbid anyone agress with me. ^_^

okay. im gay.
im a guy.
im normal like anyone else.
often if hes a closet gay.
he wont touch other guys with fears that people
will know or find out hes gay.
and he probably just takes care of his hair.
and cares about his appearance
and then the whole high pitch voice.
he cant help his voice.
and if he turns out gay.
funmail me if hes hot.
lol
but chances are hes not.

lol like above im bisexual and I have a crush on a guy and I want to tell him for eva but I dodnt then I found out he was gay (we were best friends too) and so im thopught ask him so I told him how I felt and he told me he liked me but not that way then I found a nother bi guy and he kinda likes me and I like him so we hang but we told eachother just to be friends and so yea he prbly is not gay and if he is send me a pic plaese