What do you want in a lover?

What kind of personality are you looking for in a guy/girl (whatever your interesting in)?? Please explain, im just interested to know the type of personality you would like

A guy who's personality is genrally happy and confident, likes to go crazy and just enjoy life, and loves talking or at listening to me talk! lol Just a person who treats me right and loves me!

For me,I like guys with low esteem or you can say I like "emo" guys.I dont like guys with too much confident.Hahas.Sound weird right?I like these kind of people because they'll think that they are the worst person in this world,so everything is he lose.Hahas.Of cause he cant be those guys who like to flirt.He must be gentle,caring,thoughtful,shy.^^

I girls who are independent, sweet looking, encouraging, not argumentative, not flirty, physically attractive, gentle, kind, happy and loving.

Wow.
This is a hard one:

In Looks:
-Tall
-Muscular
-Longgg, Brown or Black Hair
-Either really pale, or really tanned. No where in between
-Perfect complexion
-Beautiful Eyes
-Strong features (Jaw line, cheek bones, Muscles... Something you want to trace with your finger.)

In Personality:
-Fun
-Sophisticated, yet still easy going
-Humourous
-Confident
-Adventurous
-Happy, Somewhat hyper
-Gentle, Loving
-Loves me for who I am, loves themselves.
-Isn't afraid to show who they are.
-Isn't afraid to be affectionate in public
-Intellegent. But not bragging about it.
-Some Musical talent

I know, its a lot. And if half that list was full I would be happy. I can take some away, as I have before.. but the whole package would make me the happiest person alive