What do I do?

there's this guy who im in love with. well, I dont really know what love is but I think this is pretty damn close to it. problem is, he lives pretty far away. so we talk on IM all the time but recently we got in a BIG fight and stopped talking. but it...

wasn't like a petty stop, it was like it blew over and we just didnt talk. so basically, he IMed me and said he's having a hard time living without me. im right there with him. I miss him so much. BUT we get in fights a lot and he really makes my life harder. since he lives so far away this will probably never go anywhere so I think it would be easier to just drop him but if I do I wont be able to stop thinking about him. should I keep talking to him or no? I cant stand being with him but I cant stand without.

ahhh I USE to have that problem infact just had to deal with "justin" today justin was my x boyfriend through mysepace and the whole time he was just playing me! he still says he loves me and all and I just got so mad guys who live far away you cant really trust I was talking to this guy for 2 years and I fell absoutly inlove with him so he really screwed me up and stuff so I cant really help you with that question but I can say just please be careful because you know how guys can be...

Maybe it can be fixed... what sorts of things are you arguing about? Don't forget, it's easy to miscommunicate on messenger programs. There's a lot of communication between two people that isn't part of IM. No eye contact, no voice tone, no body language. I've had terrible fighs with my husband on instant messenger -- and it's always solved in person.

Can you give some examples of say, 3 or 4 fights?

I lived in Yellowknife (Northern Canada) and my boyfriend lived in Houston, Texas. After some years, now we live together. Trust me, we DID fight a lot too, there are ways to work through differences, but if you fight because your personalities clash a bit, it can still work but know you will probably argue at least sometimes forever... but you can figure out ways to compromise and work things out. There are always ways if you both make the effort.