What can I do with my girlfriend instead of having sex

Asked by qwertyman12345 7 months ago, 11 answers.

hi I'm 14 and I don't wan2 get my girl pregnant and we cnt get condoms to have sex so what things can we do cause we can't think of anything else besides handjob blowjob and finger so what other things can we do

Answered by angelfire2708 on Apr 28, 2008, 08:26PM
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Everything the last two people said, can/will lead to sex. They are grown up things to do with your spouse someday! It doesnt matter how long you've been dating, or how much you love her, doing sexual things doesnt prove anything, nor does it show your partner how much you love her.You are still very young, and your hormones are raging. savanna said it very nicely. Spend quality time getting to know one another on a social level. When the physical part of the relationship races ahead of everything else, it can almost become the focus of the relationship, and teens aren't developing all of the really important skills like trust and communication and all those things that are the key ingredients for a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Teenagers just are not mature enough to know all the ramifications of what they're doing.

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Answered by savanna5236 on Apr 28, 2008, 06:49PM
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Watch a funny or scary movie so that you will still be close but not sexual. What really gets you closer to your partner is to get to know them and spend time with them. You could play games and just talk and have a good time. There is plenty of time for sex in the future, and make sure that you really want to be with her if you have sex. Never have sex without a condom, you can always find something else to do.

Answered by whoopsies222 on Apr 28, 2008, 06:50PM
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Hmm, it's probably not a good idea to be sexually active at your age and you shouldn't think you should HAVE to do sexual things with her. Just take it slow and stick to what you're doing. The longer you wait, the better it will be. Don't pressure eachother into doing things you don't want to and you can be intimate in other ways than just sex, like cuddling, making out, and holding hands. More will come in good time. Just wait.

Answered by qwertyman12345 on Apr 28, 2008, 07:01PM

ok thanks but we have been going out 4 about 6 months and we love eachother to death so just give us some other things to do

Answered by whoopsies222 on Apr 28, 2008, 07:27PM
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Like I said, just cuddle and kiss her. Show her you love with her without seeming like a pervert. You can have oral sex or mutual mas*urbat*on but that's all you should do without a condom.

Answered by toria on Apr 28, 2008, 07:28PM
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ask your girlfriend to give you a lap dance, if your into drinking try body shots, um send pics on your phones, have her strip for u, eat her out, take a shower together, uh I don't know thats all I got hope it helps

Answered by pookabear on Apr 28, 2008, 08:15PM
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cuddle,kiss,strip and showers baths and french kiss also watch movies and hang out and enjoy atothers company lol thats about it

Answered by juliajordyn88 on Apr 28, 2008, 09:27PM
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6 months really isn't that long, I'm serious. For anyone, it's not that long, so I'm not saying "you don't know what you're talking about because you're just a teenager" because that's not it at all. But I think that it is a little too fast to do sex stuff, it's good that you want to find other things to do.
Covertly figure out something she's like, always wanted to do, or little things that make her happy. Make a goal to create one day that will make her love you a little more, by doing the little things! Doing things for her!

Answered by lilbeezy on Apr 29, 2008, 05:57PM
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If you really want to do something that is sexual you can eat her out and then she can give you head so both of yall are gettin pleasured

Answered by babybump on Jun 17, 2008, 02:58PM
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if you really want to have sex go to the doctors and get some condoms they will give them you no matter what age

Answered by cellfoneadict on Sep 26, 2008, 04:36PM
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if your 14 then one of your friends has condoms. use those

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