What can I believe in?

Unrequited... Asked by carriedee333 3 months ago, 9 answers.

Hi I am Catholic but not practising and I do beleiev in God. I am having a hard time getting over an ex and think I need some sort of spirituality/faith in my life as in going to groups, support etc. Any ideas?

Answered by funadvice on Aug 17, 2008, 02:30AM
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here is an idea just live your life ask some one else out go for a date go to work whatever you do you will think about it for a long time so just live your life I never forgot my girl 2 years passed... I just live my life and about god who cares we don't get s^& from him no advise or anything, I do believe in god and absolutely hate the f(&^ker he took my girl away I was 16 at that time and she was 15 she was perfect...

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Answered by luthien on Aug 17, 2008, 03:27AM
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if your looking for some sort of catholic group the best thing would probably be to contact a catholic church near you and ask about what sort of things they have. My mother goes to a relaxed, social sort of prayer group, my grandmother has a rosary group she goes to and I really like my taize prayer group which I find very calming, like a kind of meditation.

Answered by sooitca on Aug 17, 2008, 06:06AM
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ok, when you start relying on a faith to get you through something, you loose faith in yourself...

it is always good to have a faith, a belief or an idea that there is something more than just the here and now, but turning to a faith won't solve your problem..

you have lost the person you love, replacing it with something else isn't going to help you get over your ex (I don't think)

I would address what happened with your relationship, what went wrong and find happiness in yourself.

no I'm not saying don't believe and god, I am not saying that religion hasn't helped millions of different people get over different problems in their life, because all sorts of religions help all sorts of people in different ways..

what I'm saying is, you miss your ex, you have a hole where there was once a person, finding a quick-fill solution to that hole isn't going to help you stop feeling the hurt you're feeling...

most of us have lost someone we loved, whether it was our fault, their fault or someone else's, everyone needs to come to terms with what happened...

there is a good thing about splitting up with someone (believe t or not!) it's that you learn another little part of yourself...you learn the part that you never knew before...and most of all we learn how strong we are as a person...

join a church if you wish, and if it makes you happy then great, but try and sort out why your feeling the way you do first, and have a little more 'faith' in you! x

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Answered by armenia_guy on Aug 17, 2008, 06:27AM
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I dont believe in god and I live my life how I want to live.Do as me,(with beliiving in god),and your life will be great.

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Answered by jester_x on Aug 17, 2008, 06:38AM
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belivie in what your heart tells you.

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Answered by silverwings on Aug 17, 2008, 09:04AM
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God can help you to deal with everything that life throws our way, if you seek him, thru prayer and thru his word. If offers comfort, and direction, hope and renewal. Also, he can help you thru others of like precious faith.

Support is found in Christian community. Seek it out. You will find a place that is just right for you. ASK God, where he would like you to be, and ask him to help you get there.

We are not an island, we were born for community, in it, you will find the peace that you seek.

God bless...

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Answered by funadvice on Aug 17, 2008, 02:58PM
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oh yea I really do seek for god can't wait to see that bustard he's going to pay for taking her away from me

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Answered by toadaly on Aug 19, 2008, 07:55AM
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funadvice dude, god didn't take your girl from you, because god doesn't exist.

Answered by thex13thxchild on Aug 21, 2008, 07:41PM
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well you said you're cathilic.
& hey, why do you need 1?
Just [raise & worhsip if that's why you feel like doing,
you don't have to be part of a religion.

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