We're drifting apart

I've been best friend with this boy since I was like 3/4 nearly 10 years and we have always been close. When I first got a boyfriend he stopped talking to me for a bit because he didnt like him and when we broke up it was back to normal I never mentioned...

it then I got back together with him and the same thing happened. That didnt last long and we were close again but not as close as we used to be. We're in different forms and have different friend groups but we still talked when we could. I knew he liked me lots but I just ignored it because I didnt want to ruin our friendship and I didnt like him like that. Just after me and my boyfriend broke up I was at his house for tea and he went to the toilet and I found a book he'd draw in ever oage with my name on it he'd scribbled it out and put I hate beth and daniel. I showed it him and he snatched it off me. He didnt mention it again. A couple of months ago he started to hang around with other girls they didnt like him like that so he was just friends with them. I knew he also I liked one of them but he neever did anything aboiut it. He had them in his msn name instead of me so I asked and he said he cant hang round with me anymore because we have different friends but in the end we agreed to still be best friends. My boyfriend now has only been nice to him and I love him so much but we're just drifting apart even when im being extra nice to him, I know he cant stand me having boyfriends but I recently found out he likes another one of my best friends he admitted it but im confused why he didnt tell me. We hardly talk now and he said to one of my ex friend that I ignore him when I dont. What should I do?

Your friend sounds kind of lonely. He needs friends and if he liked you as more than that he may have felt abandoned when you got a boyfriend. I think you two should have some time alone together and maybe talk about why you have been drifting. Let him tell you how he feels and remain calm no matter what he says. Don't start yelling at eachother or anything. And don't talk too much about your boyfriend. Your friend sounds a bit jealous and angry that you have a boyfriend when he really wants to be with you. I'd say just try to go somewhere fun and hang out for a bit then afterwards talk to him somewhere quite where you two are both calm and comfortable. Just let him open up to you. It will all work out the way its supposed to in the end.

What you need to do is just sit down with him and figure out where you stand - because things seem to bounce around a lot. I think hes just scared to tell you how he truly feels about everything but you two really need to communicate about this because it definitely seems like miscommunication is the problem in this situation.

I think you need 2 try 2 talk 2 your friend more often and try 2 have a great relationship with him so that he wont feel jealous that you have a boyfriend