We experimented...but now we barly talk

Asked by sliminlove22316 5 months ago, 2 answers.

A guy I like is gay and is haveiung trouble comming out with it...but when hes with me, he plays on me being openly gay and we have our times. lol but I want to help him...
We experimented last year and now just a week ago. He tells me how he loves...

women, but then he turns around and when were alone togeather he does the eye-brow lift thing and yeah. ONe night we went swimming and he got out, took off his swim suit and laid on one of the chairs. I got out dried off and sat next to him. he flashed me...WOW Right? But anyway he in the dark we do stuff but not anymore. He no longer talkes to me that much because according to other people he is just having issues admitting to himself that he is gay and/or he apparently feels aqword because of whats happend between us. What do I do about this? Do I help, just comfort him or what? Please let me know what do.

Thanks :P

Answered by hbvb002 on Jun 23, 2008, 10:43PM
| 198 answers.

I have two gay friends. 1 is gay and everyone knows it. and the other is my bestfriend and every thinks it; but he hasnt come out of the closet. We are actually like you and your friend. r

regain your friendship with him 1st. get him to trust you like he did b 4. but dont ever force your frinedship on him, itll be weird.u guys wont b as close as b 4.. at least not yet. dont rush things. TRUST ME after you guys become friends, he wont like it if you try and get him to come out. its gunna take time; but I promise if your there 4 him he'll come to you when he is ready. just getting his friendship bac is what you need to focus on; him coming out of the closet is 4 him to focus on with your help!
hope that I helped; good luck with your friendship!!

Answered by stephanief987 on Jun 23, 2008, 11:54PM
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Just let him do what he needs to do.
He is most likely just really confused about his sexuality and isn't sure of himself. As time goes by he'll start to discover more and more about himself. Don't push him, just be there for him.

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