what am I going 2 do im 14 and pregnant

hey im kelly im 14 and pregnant no body knows not my parents not my boyfriend are any of my friends I dont no what 2 do and really need some help so if any body has some advice for me I really wud b gr8full thanks!!!

The most important thing to do huni, is get the people behind you that care for you. This would mean, telling your parents or guardians... If the your boyfriend is a decent cuy then maybe he an help you thru it. Tell your friends a problem shared is a problem halved. It'll be emotionally painful, but with the best outcome! Cherish this kid, and don't regret anything! Lemme know how you get on kelly xXx

I agree. Some one once said "those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind" So if someone has a problem (which someone will!) try to explain to them how you need as much support as possible. I would first tell your boyfriend, then maybe he can help tell your rents. You two need to stick together. This isn't just your baby, its his to. If you find you can't take care of the baby, and have no where else to turn, give him/her up for adoption. (please don't get an abortion!!) so good luck, kelly!

I agree with super girl you need to tell your parents and get them to understand what you are going to do and if not before hand tell your boyfriend maybe he could be there to help you tell your parents. THEN RIGHT AWAY GO TO THE DOCTOR AND GET PRE`NATAL CARE! That is the most important thing...I hope this helps

Ok, pretty stupid thing, 'cause I suppose you got pregnant by mistake (since you are 14). Actually, I am amazed how you could even had sex at your age!!! Too much TV and the environment, I guess... Anyway, I am sad to tell you that it's not too good to have a child at your age, because...you are a child yourself. I also think it might be a setback for your evolution, school, career, dating, if you have such plans in mind It is good to talk to your parents and friends, of course. And see what the other kid has to say, but I bet he'd freak out! You need a nice spanking, kiddo. But not from me Take care and be more responsible next time.

I know how scared you must be but you need to tell your parents asap. Do you have any close friends you could tell. Maybe it'd be easier telling your bestfriend first so you have someone there to help you and prepare you to tell your parents. Have you decided if you are going to keep it, you obviously need to talk things over with your parents because this is not a desicion I think you should be making on your own. There are many options you know and a lot of ways you can get help so dont think the worst. You could even get an abortion or put your child up for adoption. Think things over carefully and let your parents know as soon as possible. Dont worry about telling your boyfriend until after your family knows.

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As hard as it may be, you need to suck it up and tell your the good old 'rents. They will without a doubt be upset, but that won't affect their love for you-promise. As for you friends, I wouldn't tell them until you're positive they are your really friends, will support you and won't go telling the whole school. As for what to do with the baby? Thats a decision you need to make yourself. You need to think about it long and hard and make sure your parents support your decision.

I agree with all the replies posted by these people.You need to tell your parents and boyfriend I mean you can't keep it a secret forever. And its not easy at all I mean taking care of the baby means lots of patience(id go insane) lol but adoption is always a option and you have school on top of that and you want to have a sucessful life so im 13 and ma friend went through this so if you got questions add me on msn Fun mail me

PLEASE don't consider abortion!!!! I am 13 and can imajine what your going through I and I know it hard !!!!! Just think this child could grow up to solve world hunger or cure cancer but he can't if you kill him! Fun mail Me