How much does losing your virginity hurt?

does losing your virginity hurt because im scared ,if I lost my virginity I wouldnt be bovered ! but I want to no what it feels like eg getting your ears pierced please help !!!

It appears that in order to persuade young women not to engage in sex and intercourse our society has employed scare tactics. Society has tried to make teens fearful of their first experience by leading them to believe it will be painful and bloody. If you know it will be so, you are less likely to do it, or so some believe; the powerful influence of sexual desire is often overlooked. While a woman's first experience with intercourse can involve some pain and bleeding, it is not as bad as we are often led to believe. While most women do experience some pain or discomfort, it is rarely extremely so. In any event, pain is an indication that something is wrong.

About fifty percent of women experience some bleeding the first time, or the first couple times, they have intercourse. The cause of this bleeding is usually the tearing of their hymen. Sometimes, the vaginal wall or vulva can be injured and this too can result in some bleeding. There is usually very little bleeding, a tablespoon or less (In comparison, about four tablespoons of blood are lost during each menstrual period.) On rare occasions, there can be a lot, but this is the exception and women should not expect this to happen to them. There may appear to be more blood loss than there actually is as the blood will mix with the vaginal lubrication and sweat that are present.

The way to avoid pain and bleeding is to slowly and gently stretch the hymen and vagina prior to engaging in intercourse. It seems if the normal course of sexual development occurs, the hymen would be slowly and painlessly dilated long before intercourse occurred for the first time. A woman can do this herself using through exploration of her genitals and mas*urbat*on or with the help of her partner.

A Guide to the First Time:
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Sika

if anyone gives advice to this 13 year old about sex - you have no morals, or conscious.

kidd, go play your nintendo ds hannah montanna game

ommggg it HURTS !
But once you have done it the once it is ok
Just make sure its the 'right' hole lol
it wont hurt as much then

xXx

ommggg it HURTS !
But once you have done it the once it is ok
Just make sure its the 'right' hole lol
it wont hurt as much then

xXx

""if anyone gives advice to this 13 year old about sex - you have no morals, or conscious.""

It is this attitude that has so many teens pregnant these days. ""if we don't educate them they won't have sex"" WRONG. We are sexual creatures since birth.

it is bloody and it hurts but dont do it for the first time make sure its not your moms bed!

it doesnt hurt at all it will just be a little bit uncomfortable for you chick.

Im 18 and I lost my virginity. let me just say it is painful when you lose it and it will still be painful when you do it again! You begin to bleed and it is not a nice feeling! no matter what everytime you have intercourse, yes it will hurt!!!

It did hurt pretty bad but I didn't bleed. It varies throughout people. But its not that bad..