Use a condom or no condom

yea me and this girl at my school are going out and we havn't lost a virginity yet and we want 2 do it but should we use a condom or no condom I sorta want to do it without a condom because it's like my fist time c'mon now and my girl says use a condom...

she worried about aids and I told her it don't stop aids yea any advice?

hmmm ask her to use a female condom... that way, she'll have protection and you won't have to use it. I'm not sure if she'll be uncomfy with using one though.

I think you shouold. I mean why wouldnt you want to. and plus theres other things out there besides just aids ya know. but yeah, it would be smart to go on and use one, een if it is your first time...
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good luck

use a condom
you dont know all the risks about sex still
if you don want stds, stis or an unwanted pregnancy then use a condom
because theres a lot of myths about how to stop pregnancy that your both probably beleive
a lot of what you think might be true, isnt
she can get pregnant, if she doesnt want that
you use a condom, or ask her if she is on birth control

You are right, if you two are virgin, trust each other, maybe having the result of STD test (!!!), it is better to start with birth control pill, because f*cking is much better without condom than with it.

Well she probably isn't just worried about aids and stuff, she is probably worried about getting pregnant too, so you should consider her feelings and maybe just talk about it some more.

I agree that you should use a condom. Honestly, its her body and what if she ends up getting pregnant? Thats a scary thought for girls who don't want to get pregnant. She clearly wants protection and if you care about her you would respect her decision. Maybe if you both agree then she can go on birth control.

Use a condom. You don't want to risk taking a chance without one. Anything could happen if you don't use a condom, including pregnancy for your girlfriend, AIDS, and even STD's. Think about your girlfriend because she's right! It's best to use a condom. And also, ask yourself if you're ready to have sex with her. Is she the right person? Consider talking about it more with her and try to be on the same page with her because it doesn't seem like it right now. She wants to use a condom, while you don't. Whether it's your first time, or the 20th time, it's always the right thing to wear a condom.

use one! simple as that =)

1. Condoms DO prevent the spread of AIDS.
2. If she's not on birth control, do you want to be a Daddy?
3. Do you have the money to take care of a kid?

I think you should do a bit more research, the both of you, before you take such a huge step. A condom is 98% effective in protecting against AIDS and other STDs, and pregnancy if used PROPERLY. You are going into this clueless and don't understand quite the risks. I recommend using a condom if you don't want to become a daddy. Also, you both should go to a clinic and get tested BEFORE you start having sex, as a precaution. Especially if your girlfriend is concerned about it.

On the other side, I have friends who don't use condoms because they "don't fcuk with none of that shrink wrap". These are my friends who have burnt out brain cells. Then again, they smoke so much weed on a daily basis that they most likely have a -negative sperm count, and ejaculate spermicide. ;]. That is impossible, just to let you know, was not intended as a serious sentence. One of my friends has three kids, and he keeps in contact with NONE of the mothers. How intensely screwed up.

So I think you should be pro-condom. Make your choice. Your choosing the repercussions also. Buy a trusted brand condom, as some of the cheap ones can break or slip off. Read the How-To Instructions before you participate.

I can't believe you're even asking that question in this day and age. CONTRACEPTION IS A PART OF SEX. like it or not, that is the way it is. especially for someone of your age. condoms DO prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS and other STDs. if you don't want to use a condom and are sure neither of you have any STDs, use the pill, or the female condom. DON'T BE AN IDIOT. you have your whole life ahead of you. don't phuck it away and end up with baby that you can't afford to raise properly.