Urgent parent divorce alert!! I am going insane!!

Actually, I didnt know where to put this letter, I mean in which category and stuff but I really need help.
See my parents have been fighting for 3 weeks now, and they arent talking to each other. My mum doesnt even share the same bed with my dad. I am...

older than my sis, so while my sis was busy getting dressed, my mum took me into her room and told me if it hadnt been for me and my sis, she would have left dad a long time ago, which means a divorce. they were going to have a divorce, but turns out we stopped them. Now, my mum wants to work but my dad wont agree. So I am afraid another fight is going to come out of it. To be honest, I love my mum more than my dad, so for her own good, should I encourage the divorce?
I am afraid of my dad, but I dont want to stay with him. I want to start a new beginning with mum and my sis, but for my family's sake, should I encourage the divorce or try to stop it!! Pls help!
Now because of this, my sis and I always have nightmares and I always get dizzy in the middle of the day. I cant eat, I cant sleep and it is almost school time. I just have a hope that this cant get any worse!! This is affecting me deeply and I need some advice, QUICK!!!

If it's hurting you, run. I know it's tough on the kids, but it sounds like you'll be better off without him. You and your sis have no responsibility over your parents' relationship though, so you shouldn't feel like you "have to" do anything, either encourage or discourage a divorce, it's their own business. Your dad may turn against you if you let him know you want to get away from him. He may accuse the three of you of uniting against him. So I guess keep yourself and your sister away from the fights, encourage your mom to seek her freedom, and let the two of them figure it out among themselves. My family has been falling apart in a similar way for the past 15 years and now it has reached an unbearable stage, where the two of them openly hate each other, my father accuses us (me, sis & mom) of uniting against him and hating him, and has turned everything against us in a nasty little game of terror. But we can't leave for certain reasons at least until next year. Don't let it get nasty - cut and run while you can.

if you think it's not going to work anymore between them, end it. you want what's beeter for you. you shouldn't be afraid of your dad even thought most kids are. if you can't stand it anymore, end it