Trying to win her over

okay there's this girl I met about a year and three months ago at a national confrence but she lived three hours away. so we would email each other several times a week and I saw her and hung out with her a couple of times. now I've been going to the...

same college as her and from the emails we had been sending I thought that things were going to be great. but when I got to hear she always say's that shes busy and she hasn't emailed me for a month and she hasnt talked to me for like a week. I have taken her on one date that went alright. alright hears the question what can I do to win her over? I don't want to come on to strong but I don't want to loose her either. and to add on to that I will be leaving in a couple of months so I kind of have to hurry!

well first of all...are you leaving for a long period of time. girls dont like that. ha. but anyways. do little sweet things for her. I know it sounds corny...but buy her flowers and simply leave them on her doorstep. write her little notes saying to meet her somewhere nice. and have her dress up and be suprised to find you waiting for her. just try to think of little (or even big I guess) things that would make her smile. girls like the little things you do for them

Sure girls like the little things guys do for them, but only if the girl "likes" the guy!! If she doesnt, its basically pointless! . Has she told you she liked you, or had a thing for you? She was probably just responding to your emails to her. You really cant win someone over if the other party isnt interested! I have a guy who would do anything for me. I feel bad, but im just not interested in dating him, and I have told him over and over that I just want to be friends, but he just doesnt seem to understand! So you can do anything and everything for her, but if she isnt attracted to you, theres really nothing else you can do! It can suck sometimes when you have a crush on someone and they just dont feel the same about you!!