Trying for a baby

Hi there,im at my wits ends,been trying for a baby for well over a year now,and every month its a big dissapointment.im afraid to go to my own dr,incase theres a problem. All my sisters and brothers have kids,feel very lonely and sometimes depressed.why is this not happening for me

I think you need to get over your fear of going to the doctor. If you say that you've been trying for a baby for over a year now then you might have a problem. The doctor will be able to examine you and let you know exactly what going on with your body. He may also be able to prescribe some fertiltiy pills for you (and what other steps you can take to help you get pregnant). So I guess to help you get over your fear you can take your partner with you. Also let him get checked out too because you never know...

It could also be a problem with your partner's sperm. Why torture yourself so much? Just go to the doctor and find out what's going on so you can take the appropriate steps to get pregnant. If there is something wrong, you are delaying the process by not going.

geoing to the doctors will probably result in you finding out why you cant conceive!
the more you wait the longer youll worry
as nerd says, your partner could also be the one whos having problems
for men and women, exessive alcohol and smoking can make you less fertile
as can being overweight or underweight, as your diet can have something to do with it
also having chlamidia ands not getting it treated can make you infertile
and stress/ depression and things can cause your body to hold off being able to conceive, as well as periods
just get a check up, its much easier!