Trust issues

ok well im with this girl whom I have encountered sex with for the first time for the both of us and stuff,but I jsut want to be the best boyfriend but I got a problem with jelousy and anger,like when a guy speaks to her I get sooo mad and I dont want to...

be like that ya know, I dunno wuts wrong with me, and I get sooo mad at her when I shouldnt and id ont want to be that way anyone got advice please help me

buy a stress ball it doesnt help but its fun as hell (or talk to her or get to meet the guys she talks to)

Trust is hard, more so when someone failed you in your life... like relative or a friend or ex girlfriend... I would suggest giving her a chance, you can tell when a girl loses intrest or she is considering or going to cheat... she gets "distant" etc... just pay attetion to her signs... but be yourself... don't act all macho cause she is talking to someone... you don't want to push her away because you think she is going to do something to ruin your trust.

Jason

Try not to be over the top but try to show her that you feel less than grat about her spending too much time with other guys. But it is hard, and you just have to hope that if she wanted to be with them she wouldnt be with you.

Like Jason said. Also make sure you dont seem to clingy with her, you dont want her to feel she doesnt get any space and that she would be happier on her own.

Good luck!
Tom

You have a lot of trust/insecurity issues with yourself. Have you cheated on anyone? Has an ex ever cheated on you? These are many reasons why people get jealous. Jealousy is very normal, but its how you handle it! Just remember>you dont own your girlfriend. She is free to talk to whoever she wants. If you try to control her, you might lose her!

You have a lot of trust/insecurity issues with yourself. Have you cheated on anyone? Has an ex ever cheated on you? These are many reasons why people get jealous. Jealousy is very normal, but its how you handle it! Just remember>you dont own your girlfriend. She is free to talk to whoever she wants. If you try to control her, you might lose her!

You have a lot of trust/insecurity issues with yourself. Have you cheated on anyone? Has an ex ever cheated on you? These are many reasons why people get jealous. Jealousy is very normal, but its how you handle it! Just remember>you dont own your girlfriend. She is free to talk to whoever she wants. If you try to control her, you might lose her!

You have a lot of trust/insecurity issues with yourself. Have you cheated on anyone? Has an ex ever cheated on you? These are many reasons why people get jealous. Jealousy is very normal, but its how you handle it! Just remember>you dont own your girlfriend. She is free to talk to whoever she wants. If you try to control her, you might lose her!

You have a lot of trust/insecurity issues with yourself. Have you cheated on anyone? Has an ex ever cheated on you? These are many reasons why people get jealous. Jealousy is very normal, but its how you handle it! Just remember>you dont own your girlfriend. She is free to talk to whoever she wants. If you try to control her, you might lose her!

I apologize for so many entries! My computer wasnt sending it (so I thought) and I just kept clicking "post answer"!