Where else can I touch my boyfriend during kissing?

Asked by cate5189 11 months ago, 18 answers.

I'm 18. My boyfriend and I make out a lot. When we start, I'm usually laying on top of him. We start out kissing and then he'll pull my shirt up and start rubbing my back and stomach. A little while into it when we get pretty into it, we'll roll over...

so I'm laying on my back and he's leaning over me (he doesn't lay on top of me because he would probably squish me because I'm little). He'll start rubbing my stomach andd my legs and my butt and back to my stomach. Then he'll make his way up to my breasts. He started just rubbing them through my bra, then recently he's moved under my bra and rubbing my actual breast. While all this is going on, I'll be rubbing and/or scratching his back (he still has his shirt on) and the back of his head, etc. My question is what else can I do? Should I touch something else? If so, what and how should I go about doing that? Any advice will be much appreciated! Thanks!

Answered by atlprincess on Dec 07, 2007, 07:26PM
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DONT LISTEN TO THE PERSON ABOVE ME.. maybe ya'll should watch some cartoons.. :] OR. you could play a game. :]

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Answered by helpster1 on Dec 07, 2007, 07:12PM
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May'be it's time?

Answered by hellokitty89 on Dec 07, 2007, 10:31PM
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hunnie.. this could lead to having sex. you should start thinking about are you ready for that? but my advice I said dont have sex. because guys dont like easy girl you know. they like the hard to get stuff. because they wont appreciate it if it is too easy.. but it is your choice.

Answered by arachnid on Dec 08, 2007, 05:24AM
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If you're unsure, ask him what he likes. Communication is an essential part of any good relationship, and he'll probably appreciate that you care enough to ask, too.

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Answered by fau on Dec 08, 2007, 12:34PM
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He is on second base and you are taking a lead off first. Your counterpart of his fondling and kissing your breasts is to explore his male parts. He will let you know if he likes it or not and you can ask him if you are hurting/pleasing him. As above I would ask you to set your boundries now and let him know how far you are or are not willing to go.
Good Lucko
Gin

Answered by cate5189 on Dec 08, 2007, 12:58PM
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We have both made it clear we are not going to have sex before we are married. I know that I can stop at any time and I don't have a problem with saying 'no'. And he's not kissing my breasts...yet. So I guess my question is do I just go for it and explore his parts or what?

Answered by kattie8451 on Dec 08, 2007, 01:35PM
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me and my boyfriend are in the same situation just he is kissing my breasts... you can touch his legs and his face if your not ready to touch his male part... I no my boyfriend likes it when I touch the back of his neck and head and like play with his hair ... he hasnt told me that but he kindof moves my hand there. so if your boyfriend is moving your hand to his back then maybe thats what he is into... but if you are touching his legs he may think you want to go a little further. so just be aware of that... hope I helped ^ ^~Kaitlyn~

Answered by cate5189 on Dec 08, 2007, 01:55PM
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I do put my hands on the back of his neck and the back of his head and play with his hair. He said he likes that. And I rub his back too. And the position we're in, my arm isn't really long enough to touch his legs. It's just at his belt or maybe a little past that.

Answered by texaskimmie on Dec 10, 2007, 12:35AM
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If you don't know what to do, and are asking on a website what to do, you are NOT ready for sex honey.

Answered by oneheartnow on Dec 10, 2007, 12:52AM
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Stick your fingers in his ears and twirl them around. Boys ears are very sensative!

Answered by cate5189 on Dec 11, 2007, 12:41PM
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I know I am not ready for sex. I never said I was. We've both agreed not to have sex before marriage.

Answered by funadvice on Dec 15, 2007, 10:12AM
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wrap your legs around him and press into him, and start moving your hips! but thats only if your ready to go farther than that, because then thats just teasing

Answered by bshea on Jan 30, 2008, 12:22PM

well this is kind of a question.. but can someone please answer it please.. I feel like I am ready for sex, but then again at other times I dont.. When we are makeing out he trys to put his hands down my pants ?, AND I would love it but when he takes his hand out wouldnt it smell bad and have semen on it or something ? Please help me

Answered by winslet on Feb 04, 2008, 06:24AM
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if possible, I know you said your arms reach his belt, grab his butt. I dont know if it's good advice for all guys but I like it.

Answered by lover_girls_assyrianz_girls on Feb 29, 2008, 07:08PM

hey there I tell you somethin but you trust me tried this with many boys when your kissing try to put your hand near his butt and if he giggles or laugh then you can rubb it and if he didnt say anything just touch his pen*s trust me on that.thanxx

Answered by sarahpugh on Mar 23, 2008, 05:47AM

My Boyfriend gets turned on if I kiss him under his ear on his neck...
But I Think Your Ready...:D

Answered by additallup on Apr 05, 2008, 10:53PM
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I don't even know me and my boyfriend are in kind of the same situation but I don't know I actually have a question does a guy think about anything while you are making out with them and they touch your breast then they play with your nipple? Does that mean anything because I am not planning on going anything further with him like having sex yet I am only 17 years old...please help... but to answer your question I honestly don't know my self.

Answered by pcmr123 on Jul 23, 2008, 10:03PM
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start going down by his pen*s, on the outside of his pants.
he'll love you for that.

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