How to handle being torn in this dispute?

I am caught in the middle on a dispute between my ex wife and her new husband. We have a daughter together and she wants me to throw her mom's new husband out of the house for not treating my ex right. I also have a new love in my life that tells me it...

is not my concern it has to do with my ex wife not me but my Daughter has asked not my ex . I think it is impotiant that my daughter can rely on me for anything and I do meen anything . Should I say no to my Daughter or just throw his sorry a** out of the house ? I do have to say my new G.F. is not feeling the hole thing . I am lost and need help .

It' hard to decide,isn't? Maybe you can have a deep talk with your G.F about what you really think.

If my child asked me then I would take into consideration whats going on? Is it so bad that its really bothering my daughter so bad she shouldnt see it hear it. Is this going to cause a later problem with my daughter I would have a talk with my ex see what is the deal or maybe talk to him man to man!! tell him he wants to argue with her then to make sure my daughter doesnt see it. as for your girl your child should always come first never a women when your old and cant do for yourself you will wish you were different sorry if I affended you but thats my oppinion love hope it works out

The relationship between the ex and new hubby is none of your business - totally the ex's problem to solve - however, you do need to speak to your ex and ensure she understands the daughter needs/deserves/must have a healthy environment in which to grow up and develop - a solution is necessary to avoid this turning into a legal / abusive reporting situation...I wish you the best !!

You shouldn't just go over there and "throw him out" like your little girl says, but you should definately have your ex and her husband sit down and talk it out with you. Your daughter shouldn't feel unsafe in her own home and you have to protect her like you said. Whatever happens, try to keep it civil between all of the adults involved and don't bring your own issues into it, focus on your daughter. Good luck!