Tips on my girlfriend

okay, I know how to eat out and finger and all that stuff, but sometimes she tells me I go too hard on her 'favorite spot' and I know you have to go soft on the outside and can go harder on the inside. its just that when she starts havin an orga*m I...

start getting into it and I go faster to please her more and make her have the best orga*m of her life!

is there any tips you could give me about how to make her feel so good? I want to blow her mind the next time I see her. what do girls like most that really gets them going? any advice is greatly appreciated

The only advice that you need to know is -- ignore every tip and technique you receive. Pleasing your partner is about what they want and what they need, not what worked on someone else's girlfriend. It seems like you're already filling your head up with "I should do THIS and then I should do THIS," and all that's going to lead to is a disappointed girlfriend and a lot of chafing.

Pay attention to her reactions and responses. Listen! Learn! Don't just blindly and dumbly continue with some actions that you think should be working despite all the evidence that it isn't. You're falling into that trap already if she keeps having to tell you that you're hurting her.

Just as you wouldn't want your girlfriend continuing to use a handjob technique on you that her last boyfriend loved but you find irritating, she doesn't want you using a bunch of second-hand techniques that you found on the internet. Nothing works for everyone.

pay attention to her reactions and if she looks unpleased ask her what do you want me to do to you? then she'll tell you...try licking her nipples or nibble on them that gets practically every girl going, if you didnt already no that...also you could ask her if she wants to try rold playing ...like she could be the patient and you could be the doctor...just an idea.

thank you mikeh. that makes a lot of sense and you are right. its the first girlfriend I have got to do stuff with tho. bein my age, not a lot of girls are all that fun. im her first one as well. (according to her). I try to read her, but she is very hard to some times.. because she is good as acting or faking sometimes. every night after we do stuff I ask her what hurt or what was uncomfortable or what could I do to make it better. and she tells me so I tell her to tell me while im doing that so she doesnt have to go thro it...

and princexx.. I have never done role playing before and am not too sure if she would be into that sorta thing.. how exactly does it work? like what does it create or how do you do it?

Personally, I think role playing might be a little advanced for you right now. I would concentrate on the basics before moving on to anything fancier.

Keep paying attention to her reactions and you will pick up on more and more subtle behavior as you get more practice under your belt. And I only warn you away from storing up a catalog of "moves" because I made the same mistake. I was four or five sex partners down before I finally figured out that not everything will work with every person.

You're lucky to be starting early, though. By the time you get to college, you'll be a superstar.

haha thank you man!
and thank you so much for the great advice! you have no idea how helpful it is and how less stress I feel.

haha you better stick round because I still might have some more questions that may need some of your great advice.

even tho im like 2 years into this stuff as is..

well you mentioned that she doesnt tell you while you are participating in this activity. well then take charge. ask her during it do you want me to go faster/ deeper, am I hurting you, does this feel good... its good that you could communicate with her because that will get you really far in the long run because as mikeh said not all girls are the same. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

thank you very much!