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Was it a bad move to go on a break?

B&W:) Asked by czechbabigurl1994_21 14 days ago, 5 answers.

Okay well, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 1 week. Anyways, it's not a big problem, more of a concern. Last night he told me he wished that he could of had a break before asking me out. I didn't understand, so I asked what he meant. He told me that he had dated to many girls. He asked me how long was my break before I started to date him and I said, about 3 months. He said, you see, I only had 8 days. So then I said, ' so you want to break up, or you just don't want a relationship right now but you want a break?'. He answered, ' well kinda '. But he kept on saying he doesn't want to loose me, and that if this includes him breaking up with me or losing me, he doesn't want to have a break. In the end he was scared to loose me or if we went on a break, and promise to get back, he was scared id find someone better.

So I offered him that, he can just forget he has a girlfirend and go on his little break.
( but were still dating but not talking to eachother or seeing eachother.)

He said he needs 3 days so I'm waiting till Saturday.
I just want him happy so I'm doing this. And I hope he's not doing anything else rather then taking a break, if you know what I mean. But I trust him.

What do you think?
Was that a bad move?
What should I do?

Please and thank you!

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:] Answered by loulou11 on May 14, 2008, 05:43AM
| 277 answers.

With him having that many girlfriends I would be kind of worried that he has a girl on the side. I he's trustworthy then he may just want some alone time for a little before he jumped into something else. I mean just see how it goes theres a chance you'll get back together or theres a chance he'll keep wanting more time to himself. if you are not talking and not seeing each other then it's not really dating. jsut wait and see what happes.

diy metallica dress Answered by jazlovestoskate on May 14, 2008, 05:46AM
| 1387 answers.

im not really sure
but he could have meant it in a bad way
unless he just wants some space, alone time, or a little bit of freedom
then he might be doing something worse...yes...sex
maybe he wanted a break before you guys went out so he could have more of it...
im not exactly sure, bbecause I dont know the guy
but when he does come back tell him to be completely ohnest with you about what he did during the time

this is muah Answered by emiedawn01 on May 14, 2008, 06:17AM
| 42 answers.

my b/f did the same thing. hes probably scared. my ex left me for 2 weeks because he was afriaiid hed cheat on me wit his ex. well when we were on our break, we got so much closer. we became such good friends, so then when we got back together it was like I knew him my whole life and everything was just...wow. so id just ask him if he wants his break now. no dating other people, but time to be just u. and telll him youll be there no matter what. trust me, itll be amazing!

B&W:) Answered by czechbabigurl1994_21 on May 14, 2008, 08:04AM
| 67 answers.

Thank you guys so much, but I'm not sure what's going on with him. We are still dating but, I asked him what was the exact reason. He told me it was because he wants some, ' freedom '. I trust him with my whole heart, but I honestly think he just wants some time. Since he only got 8 days to have a break, that's not a long time. I told him if he wants to break up with me but all he tells me is, ' no I don't want to loose you'. After he said ' forget it, if I have to break up with you or if I loose you then I don't want the break '. Like I always tell him I want him to be happy, and he says, I am happy with you. So then after I'm like, do you just want to still go out? But pretend you don't have a girlfriend and see how it goes, so we are not talking for 3 days. But we are still going to say ' good night and I love you '. Anyways, I will ask him tonight, on what he's thinking and everything. Plus hes really honest since he told me how he felt right?

I hope everything works out because I don't want to loose him(L)
Thank you all!

Me Cheesing Answered by theinjun on May 14, 2008, 04:54PM
| 1104 answers.

Well if he just wanted some alone time he should have just said it out loud. It sounds to me as if he is hiding something. Figure it out what it is and then you should both think up a solution. If he just needs some alone time to think then you should have both agreed to it instead of going on a break.

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