Threesome

I want a threesome with my girl with her mate but shes to scared what can I do?

first ask your g/f's mate if she wants it or not, maybe your g/f can ask her. If the asnwer is "yes" or "maybe" or "I am not sure" ect, organize a nice evening treating with good meal and wine etc; you have a chance for they 2 will play with u

Threesomes are tricky because jealousy and awkwardness come into play. Usually things go sour, so don't have a threesome with a good friend.

A threesome: a common human sexuality theme. We do it every chance we get to do it. It is enjoyable for consenting adults to occasionally engage in this activity with a few caveats.

If you want to do a threesome with two men and one woman, that is easy to do but kiss your relationship good bye unless the males are bi and even then it goes bang afterwards. There are lots and lots of guys out there that would join you and your partner. Every couple I have ever known that did that broke up so in my narrow field of view this is not too good. I have no good advice on that type of threesome. Good luck with that.

If you want a threesome with two women and one man, that is the most sought after arrangement, this is the hardest to do but for me the most fun to have. Simply looking at the number of positions you can have with two women and one man, you can see that the fun just multiplies. The big problem is that this is very hard to arrange.

First the women have to overcome the same sex stigma and just think of all the sexual possibilities for fun. Not easy to do for most mainstream women today or even yesterday. Girl on girl sex means “LESBIAN” to most women. Lesbianism is a natural form of a loving relationship and life style choice, not a sex act. We all associate girl on girl sex with lesbians because that happens to be the sex they practice. If you are a hetero couple, chances are that the woman is not a lesbian nor will she turn lesbian by touching another woman. That is just not natural. The male has to reassure the first mate a lot and she has to be receptive. This is not easy to do for most people and if things were to go bad with the relationship, they will do that at this point or not too far from it. Do not be pushy; this will take a long time to do...a long time if you want it to work. Natural processes like changes in ways thinking, understanding physical sex, feeling sure in your relationship all have to come about before there is any chance for a couple to have a threesome with another girl. This process takes time, lots of time. Here is where patience pays off.

Second, usually there is a couple looking for a single girl, there are lots of couples from age 18 to age 65 doing just that and few single girls of any age willing to join them. Yet some of us get to do it sometimes. So it does happen, more now than it did 10 years ago for some reason so there is always hope for future fun.

A Male, Female, Female threesome is the easiest to handle because the couple can still maintain their intimacy, the second girl maybe has had experience or would like to experience a woman's touch. Guys, don't understand this fact too well. Women are more understanding, they know what it means. Either way the second girl does not represent a challenge to the male ego and males usually do not try to run off with the second girl since doing the threesome reinforces the male's desire for the original couple to stay together. The female of the couple has to be perfectly happy and comfortable with the second girl. Generally the common feeling is that another second girl can always be found but if the male gives up the first mate; he has to start all over, not easy. Males DO think this way most of the time. Females can get picky and feisty and jealousy can arise. Choose your second girl carefully; involve your partner in the selection. Ladies can choose well, as well as men, it is amazing how that works. I would say it is almost natural. You the couple needs to be tolerant of the second girl's looks while keeping within your personal choice guidelines. Remember, you are coming together for sex not a lifetime relationship. Looks are not really that important; if you are over 30 you understand this. If younger, it is time to start.

Third if this threesome takes place and all can touch all etc and... fun is had by all... you have another problem: Doing it gain.

You, the couple, may want to do it again and the second girl may not. Now you have to start all over. Now you have some experience, makes it better from lessons leaned. But if you want to do it again and all parties agree to one more time you are all in luck. If you the couple did not like it, then stop talking about it, you are done with threesomes. This is important if you want to keep the relationship. Use common sense.

Fourth, there can be jealousy from your partner. That needs to be squelched immediately or some one's feelings will get hurt. Not good for the relationship. Reinforce your feelings for your partner continuously regardless what you are doing or what activity is taking place. You have to make the second girl feel welcome, wanted and beautiful or else you don't get a second chance. Use common sense. If you value the relationship and the male starts to develop feelings for the second girl, this is the time to stop this threesome and seek another second girl. It is important for the male to explain this carefully to his partner, this will strengthen the relationship. This is thin ice for the relationship. The female will have feelings for the second girl because that is how women are. They will not have sex without a relationship and good feelings, women are very good at that. They usually have friends they naturally have feelings for. This is very similar. Always go with the natural flow, use common sense..

So, if you get to do it, the first time, take it easy and stay away from telling other people what to do, discourage that behavior from anyone allow things to happen naturally. Amazingly, sex is pretty natural, no need for anyone to direct traffic. Your partner may amaze you, the second girl may amaze you, you may amaze yourself, you will probably amaze your partner at some point, guaranteed. If you notice any jealousy on your partner's side, squelch it immediately. Use common sense.

You and your partner can share feelings about the threesome you just had before contacting the girl and agree on similar response in the case she makes a request for seconds. Hey, believe me, it happens. The day after both you and your partner should thank the second girl and remind her how beautiful she is and how nice it was to have the time with her. Some couples send flowers, we do not, we re-contact the girl separately the next day so she gets to hear it from both of us; that seems to work just fine. Use common sense.

For a second time in a threesome with the same second girl you can then say: "I liked when you did this or that can you do it again" etc. After that you, as they say, are on your own. Enjoy.

MOST IMPORTANT: As with any sexual experience, remember that you have the responsibility to comply with all the safe sex rules so neither you nor anyone else gets pregnant or worse, sick with a sexually transmitted disease. This means blood tests and condoms, cleanliness. Exercise extreme cleanliness at all times. No one likes to do oral sex on sticky, gooey, messy skin unless they request it. Be good to yourself and the other people and have fun. That is what sex is for when you are not trying to make babies.

A threesome once in a while gets your sex life out of the rut and into the hot sensuality point where it should be.

I speak from positive personal experience. I love my partner and would never hurt my partner, myself or our relationship, that comes first and foremost. You get a good thing going, enjoy it and keep it going good. Use common sense.

iif she d0nt want to d0 iit den she d0nt want to d0 iit d0nt f0rce her and iif you want to have a 3sum that bad andshe d0nnt want to d0 iit den m0ve 0n

nahh, don't force her.
&& plus, threes0mess aree kiindaa diifficult because 1 person want to do 1 thing and the other person doesnt get too.

taking turns :/
jealousy comes into play with threesomes.

trust me. I knoe :]

u can't force a girl to have se* with you and her friend
that's gross in my opinion
but if she wants to she will agreee don't force it on her thou