This sounds weird, but...

Okay, so for the weekend, I spent time with my Aunt and I had such a good time. She is very free-spirited, opinionated, but knows how to set boundaries. She decided to let me stay over her house for the weekend because she knew that I wasn't so thrilled...

about moving to a new house, though I'm still staying in the same area, and I was so stressed about it.

Anyways, like I said, I had the best time with her. She took me shopping, the movies, she even took me to work with her. I know this sounds like so weird and all, but I came home, upset because I had to leave her house.

Like, I feel like I can let everything go when I'm around her. She's not too serious, compared to my mom. My mom can be pretty tense at times, and a bit too serious about things. My Aunt is a different story, but that's why I love my Aunt so much. I can come to her for anything, but when I came home today, my mom saw me upset because I didn't want to leave my Aunt's house.

My mom like literally, flipped out and was like, What the hell is your problem? You want to live with her or something?!?

Honestly, I can't stand the fact that I have to deal with my mom on a daily bases. I can't believe when I went to my Aunt's, for only a weekend, my whole mood changed when I came home. I was so relaxed at her house, and I was so happy there, but when I came back to my mom's house, I felt more like, overprotected and she gets sooo serious at times, I hate it!

Well, I don't know how anyone can give me the best answer for this.

Should I just be happy about the fact that I can talk to my aunt anytime I can, and ignore the fact that my mom can be too much of a b***h sometimes?

Sometimes, I wish I could live with my Aunt and not have to worry about dealing with my mom.

Your Mom and your Aunt have two different sets of responsibilities. Your Aunt can be your friend and companion. She can relax because it is not her responsibility to teach you, keep you safe, feed and clothe you, get your education taken care of, safe guard your health , etc.

Your Mom is under all that pressure and much more, so she is stressed out because she loves you and is worried that no matter what she does it may not be enough. Try to ease up on your Mom. Understand where she is coming from.

You are very lucky to have relatives that care so much for you. Let them both know that you love them.

Goode Luck!!!

good things can only be taken in small doses..like christmas..how annoying would christmas get if it was everyday? you wouldn't want to lose that special bond with your aunt, but you can still call everyother day or so and tell her what's going on and she can be your stress releiver.

Yeppp I agree with bimjob.