The love of my life?

Three years ago my neighbor Jessica left on a vacation to Florida. I thought she'd just meet some random guys, have a good time, and expecting her going to Florida wouldn't had changed the rest of my life. She came back with a lot of stories to tell....

Mostly about one boy, one magnificent boy. Her only word to describe him was "hott." I was interested, just because I love meeting new people and I wanted to find out what made this guy tick. I first started talking to him and he was somewhat of a square...he had a girlfriend at the time, lived in Massachusetts...and I just didn't expect a life altering result from this kid. I started talking to him more and more...everyday. It took us a year to fall in love. By July 14th the next year he would be admitting to me he loved me and that I would never realize how much he did. This was in 2005. Later on that summer while he and I were in a little arguement about not giving up on our love because of the distance, I went to Cedar Point (you know, the worlds LARGETS amusement park) with my bestfriend Jordan. We picked our first ride extremely carefully, we didn't descriminate against line or how far away this ride was. We finally picked some roller coaster that strapped you in and flew you in circles. It seemed that when you got off this ride your legs would be similar to melted laffy taffys. We couldn't wait. We stood in line and made conversation with a woman & her daughter who both had an accent. I asked "where are you from, I noticed your accent?" She responded, "A little South of Boston." Zach(the boy I'm addressing in this story) lived South of Boston, in a small town called Fairhaven. AN EXTREMELY. SMALL TOWN. Anywho, I told her that I hada friend that lived South in Boston in a town called Fairhaven. Her daughter and her both cracked up and had a shocked look on their face, they exclaimed, "we live in Fairhaven!!!" the teenage daughter asked me my friends name and I told her, "Zach Kingsland." At that very moment my heart had stopped it's longing, desiring, ache for love & questions. The young girl said "I know Zach!! OH MY GOD! I have known him since I was in Kindergarten!!!"

You cannot tell me that is not ironic. I ended up getting into a conversation about Zach with an uncle of mine (by marriage, he married my mother's sister) and he told me the town he was from in Massachusetts. He was born and raised there until he was in the army at age 20. He and my aunt met in Florida, hahaha..ironic. Anyways, my uncled told me he grew up in a town five minutes away from Fairhaven. Wow, right? RIGHT.
There is just too much to throw away here, already.
I could talk to Zach about anything. I loved him so much. There has not been someone in these past 3 years that has ever cared so much, been so sweet, and loved me like he had. The very first person I spontaneously spoke to at the world's largest amusement park happens to know him? Too weird to not mean something.

I'm torn right now.
I just met him for the very first time 3 days ago exactly. We met in Ohio at a indoor percussion compettition. We have been in contact for 3 years. I'm here whenever he needs me, we talk randomly....but we stopped our love fest after I gave up on the distance. I just couldn't take the pain, but that didn't stop me from loving and knowing that this boy was meant for me.
When we met it was almost like magic...I didn't even have to speak, he knew what I was going to do, what I was going to say. It was amazing. We were calling eachother from one foot away from eachother, he was on a stair below me and we didn't even know it was eachother until he turned around and heard my voice in person saying the same thing he was hearing through his cellphone. How cute, I know.
Anyways. I have the deepest feelings for this boy. I don't know what to do about it. I just have this gut feeling that he is the one for me and I am so curious if he feels the same way. We have never had very serious relationships since meeting eachother. I just think that we both know that noone can even compare to eachother. I know thedistance is rough but he is 18 and a senior and my mom would allow me to see him whenever I wanted to. My uncle who is from Mass. has a mother that lives right by Zach whom he visits frequently, I could just jump on the plane or car whenever he goes. Zach would be allowed to stay in my home and everything. It all just seems great.
The problem is, I don't know what to do? Zach and I talk but it isn't anything like it used to be. I have a feeling that could change, I just don't know what to do or say. I want to express everything I feel and I know I truly want to, I just need reassurance or maybe a "better" or "reasonable" solution. Please help me, I have never felt this way before. My heart skips beats, he's all I think about, it's all too ironic, and my bestfriends say that he is the only person they could see me with.

Should I write him anything expressing these feelings towards him? Or just let him continuously to create small talk with me until the small take advances and advances.
Please...I need to do something, I want to take some action!!

Thank you soooooooo much.
responses will make me so happy.

I think you're getting ahead of yourself a bit here. What exactly do you need help with? Until you both admit/discuss your feelings, there really is no "decision" to be made about anything. First thing is first. Talk about your feelings, see what the options are. It could all be so much easier than you think.

And get this book called, "Ten Things Women Do to Screw Up their Lives" by Dr. Laura Slessinger. Read it. Please read it.

You both need to find out exactly what you feel for one another before you take any action, discuss it, call him or email me wateva and tell him how you feel otherwise it will continue to stand still. Maybe the distance is to much for him to handle thats why he hasnt made any moves. Just discuss it 1st and take it one step and at time.