How to tell my husband that I'm tempted to cheat?

how do I tell my husband that I thnk about my ex. and that I have been faking my orgazimes for years

Wow, thats a kick in the arse.
Not good not good, I feel sorry for your husband.

dayum.. well this is quite difficult, about the org**m thing, just seriously, if you must tell him, then try to be as nice as possible about it, and try to forget about these feelings you have for you ex. so that when you tell your husband... you are not forced to tell him about some ex of yours. goodluck.

Oh man! I would try to work on the sex part first before I would even think to tell about my feelings for an ex. He might go postal over the ex thing!