Strong feelings for my cousin!!

I'm 13 years old and I think I have strong feelings for my cousin. Like a guy not as my cousin, and I think he does to but I'm I don't know what to do, If to see him secretly without my mom knowing, or should I try to forget him.

Today...

we almost kissed but my insticts told me not to. I mean he is 14 years old. I really like him.What should I do??

At first I thought it was a phase, but it’s been a long, long time’(years) and I still think about her every day. I know now that I love her more then any thing. I’ know she likes me but I and not comfortable talking to any one about it. We will muck around and stuff, we would get real close and almost kiss. She’s all ways touching me and every now and then when she’s playing around, out of no whare “you’re my cousin”. Like she’s telling me what she’s feeling.
I say take your time, some people just can’t talk about it but when your alone it doesn’t matter because no one’s there to see what’s going on.

Hey! You shouldn't be afaraid if he's a family memeber or not!If you really like him you should go for it! Just because your family members doesn't mean that yuo have to see him as a family member ONLY. I've heard of cases like this before! It doesn't really matter.....what matter is how your heart feel....and if your heart feel likes liking him....you shoulld like him too.

Hey!! look if you really like your cousin 4get about everybody else and go out with him. This is not the first time that things like this happen.It has happen before and at the beginning it might be hard but after a while people accept it, so don't be afraid if you really like him and he likes you 2 go for it, it might work out.

GOOD LUCK!!

I honestly think you need to forget about him. I know you can't help who you love, but hooking up with a family member in a love kinda way is just wrong. I have no clue what is wrong with the rest of these people, but it's just sick. I cannot even explain how sick I feel right now just thinking about it!!!!

I think you REALLY need to open up your eyes and realize what you are saying right now!

Love Always,
Heather

I just want you to put yourself in my position what would you do. I know people say is sick but hello!! love is like that. Love is always impossible. So I think you should see my point of view. I understand that he is my blood. But I mean you can't tell your heart who to love!

if you really love your cousin. I believe you should go for it.
but this will effect your offspring. please think over this
ideas of loving your cousin. do your parent know that you and your cousin are in love?? I know how you feel because I also
in love with my cousin. our parent found out so we got serperate. I really miss her so much. I hope you should this
a secret. GOOD LUCK!!

PLEASE HELP, SHOULD I CONTINUEING LOVEING HER.
I REALLY LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART AND IF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO HER, I WISH IT HAPPEN TO ME. BECAUSE I LOVE HER MORE THAN ANYTHING. I KNOW SHE IS PART OF MY FAMILY MEMBER BUT WHAT CAN I DO. PLESASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. I KISS HER LICK
AND ALSO MAKE LOVE WITH HER. WHAT CAN I DO.

You should tell him what you feel first, then take it from there. If nothing else, its always good to hear and he won't tell anyone if you don't want to, I mean, he's family. He'll keep your secret safe if needed.

What's up? I know how you feel, all you cousin-lovers out there! Here is my story. I met my cousin "M" about 2 months ago for the first time in my life, when we went on vacation to Florida, which is where he happens to live with his family. He is my mom's brother's son. When I first saw him, my heart skippked a beat because he was so gorgeous. I couldn't help myself. I knew it was wrong to feel this way, but you cant stop your heart from feeling and loving someone. Anyway after many hours of conversation, swimming and just chillin, I noticed him flirting back. We had such an awesome bond, a connection I've nevr felt with anyone else before. Im 16 and he's 17. He called me the other day and confessed his feelings towards me. I live in Canada.......what should I do, myself? I also feel wrong because I think its a sin and I am a christian? wouldn't this be incest? someone please reply...thank you so much for reading this

~Much luv, *Mo*~

omg I had the same situation!!and I did go out with him!!I say you go for it!but you also have to watch out because when you guys brake up you guys still have to see eachother in family parties and it hurts real bad if he takes his new girlfriend.or you guys dont have to go out you guys can just be kissing partners you know?well I wish you very good luck!!

I think you should go out with your cousin beoucse you not going to like him forever and this can give you expiernce with boys. You like him becouse he is close to you and you know him. You will learn lots and will want to start dating other boys from school are where ever. You dont have to listen to us through and tell you ha to do just do what feels right. If you do go out with him try and keep it away from your family becouse that can couse some problems.

And for the genetical disorder for the offspring of cousin couples there is only 6% chance and for entire 3% chance(scientificall proved). 3% differce nothing much to worry.
if you need more, then I will say that me mom and dad are cousins.
=>me and my sister are perfectly healthy.

u just go for it

I know how it feels believe me, I got involved with my cousin who is younger than me. It must have been love, who knows? We didn't stick around long enough to find out because he lives in another state. We kissed and stuff. It felt great but sooner or later that guilty feeling would catch up on you. There is just something inherently wrong about loving your cousin. Your family, the society, yes even the law is against you two...how can you win?

Well hi. I did a research on cousin love and found this convo...im a little messed up myself because I have feelings for my cousin. Problem is im 18, hes 16...lol. As if thats not odd enough...lol, I feel really stupid because I told him and I dont want to him to be uncomfortable about it. He says hes not anyways....
But the thing is I dont know how to deal with it!!! *__*

please I need help!!!!!! I love my cousin with all my heart!!! he was the best thing that ever happened to me, he is perfest smart, and nice!! he is like my only guy friend so it is natural to fall in love with him, he is so understanding! But I am afraid if I tell him my feelings, he might not feeel the same way, and not feel comfortable around me anymore. He still is in love with his Ex-girlfriend who he had to leave behind beguase he moved here from another country. there are soo many signs that he might like me, he stares at me, well at least I think, we use to go everywhere together like that park and*ahh!! I can't think of them right now, so many places* but one time he let my lay on his shoulder, and at the pool he stroked my hair or something, I dun know it was weird..we sit together a lot and when we look at pictures, our faces get so close, I could almost kiss him!! when he says hi to my friends, I somewhat heems different than the way he tells me hello..one time, he was checking his email and IM and said "hey nicky, you probably check if I email you everday" *something like that* I said " what, I dont have IM, I only check it at your house, what gave you that idea??" him* " secret.."
=_= I don't know what to do, there are some reasons that he doesn't like me, like sometimes he doesn't talk to me when im over at his house!!I want to tell him how I feel and kiss him, but im scared, im not very good at confessing..T-T PLease helo me!!!!!!??????? please answer here cuase I dont want to give my real email address.

umm.
your children could end up having like 5 legs or something
don't do that...
it's yucky.
find a guy. not blood related... mk.

does he make you warm down there? if so jump on his lap just in your undies...if he likes you his thing will grow...try it it's fun

hes your cousin he may be hot but dont kiss him tell him what you think about him

I understand exactly how you feel. I have strong feeling for my cousin too. the thing is theres too many problems that I've learned within dating your cousin. Like that your whole family would be disgustided.But theres also a good reason too. That maybe in a way it could be very romantic. hiding toegther. having fun toegther and maybe even kissing if thats how strong it is.who you love you cant help. but you have to make the right decison that you think is right. just like I did. GOOD LUCK and I hope it works out
from, julia

Hay go for the secret relationship because something’s better then nothing. It's been a long time since you asked the question so I'm wondering what happened? Did you go for it or not?

Forget about him, it's incest and then you're whole family will be talking and you're friends and people at school also.. its actually kind of discusting. He's your own blood.