Still virgins & havent even had a first kiss!! help

Ok me & my friend are 15 & we are still virgins & we havent even had our first kiss yet! We dont know what to do! Is it a bad thing all of our other friends have done it all! We dont know if we should do it now or wait we dont want to wait to long! But we dont want to end up being pregnant at a young age! But we think its stupid that we havent even had our first kiss! & we have gone out with tons of guys! tell us what you think we should do we really need someones help!

hold on, when I was your age I thought the same thing. But what you have to realize is that everybody doesn't have sex at that age. When I was 15 all I wanted to do is have sex because all my friends were having it. I am 19 now and believe it or not still a virgin. I still have the same friends and they tell me everyday how they are so proud of me. They regreted every second of it. You need to have sex when you are ready. Run your life how you want to. Sex is everything is not what is meant to be. Make sure you love this person and that you are ready because if you're not then it's not going to mean anything. Not now, but later in life you will not worry what other people think of you. You will realized that feeling like that is just a part of growing up and I will tell you that I wish at your age I knew what I know now. Take your time because that's all you have.

Ladies, there is no hurry to get intimate. Men at your age are nothing but trouble and most of them are probably jerks. I know you feel; like you should have at least your first kiss by now, but I was 16 before I kissed a guy. I had plently of guys interested in me too, but you want to make sure the guy is worth kissing. Trust me guys get nicer with age so why not wait.

its ok....having sex is a big deal. dont do it just because you want to be like other people. wait until its the right time. and when it is the right time youll know. I always wanted to have sex because all of my friends had and I wanted someything more in commmon with them. but then I realized that I dont need to have sex to have more things in common with them, because I already have a ton of better things in commmon. but I respect you for not having sex or even a first kiss because when you have it, it will be so much more then you thought it could ever be. so save both of them for someone truly special.

Ok. Stay virgins. There is really no reason to rush that. But as far as kissing, that's different. And you know what? Everyone is nervous about kissing at first. But it's really not that hard. All you do is go with the flow. It's not rocket science. It's more of what you feel like doing. It's only so many variations that you can do. Kiss the lips, put your tongue in his mouth and roll it around. Kinda feel him out to see what he's doing and then just mimick that. The only real advice I can say is don't use too much spit and make sure that your breath is fresh.
The more you do it the better you'll get and sooner or later you will develop your own technique. Have fun and keep it sweet.

ok...no problem. you dont have that big of a deal. girls I had my first kiss @ like 5. it wasnt a good idea because I didnt find someone special to give it to. you want to wait 4 the right guy and thats what your doing....thats good. I am young too I havent had sex and im proud of it! I know a lot about it...I mean I've done things but I havent had sex. dont rush anything...take your time.right now guys your age are compleatly evil....thats the only way to discribe them @ all...they are evil. all they are looking 4 is to f**k you and tell all their friends. they dont care about u @ all. wait till your older to give it up. guys around 19,20,21 wont hurt you unless you find em @ a wild ass party. the thing about sex is us girls will get atached, guys dont. the kiss, just wait 4 a guy who you know you will always remember no matter what! I gave my first kiss to my best friend and we still talk. he is special to me and always will b. find someone you know you will always remember and have good thoughts about before you just give it away. and when you think you have found a guy he just wont kiss u, hes not making any moves.....do it yourself.if you feel like kissing him in mid-conversation then go 4 it!! surprise him and let it go. but I wouldnt say go far just a peck....nothing more.then later ask what he thought about it if he said he liked it then you go girl if he says it was ok but he doesnt want you to do anything because he doesnt feel that way....BACK OFF!!! just do it when you feel like its the time to do it then ask later. dont let it carry on. after the kiss keep talking...ask a ? about what he was talking about before...just let the conversation roll on.
later!
blondie

Jeez, don't listen to these people telling you all men are evil; that's BS. I just love it how people stereotype as every guy as a sex-crazed teenager who wants to steal your virginity. Yes, there are assholes, but no everyone is. Anyways, it's JUST a kiss - not intercourse, not oral sex, JUST a kiss. As for sex, just keep yourself away from it until you're ready, and if for some reason you do happen to get involved in that situation, use protection, take the pills. However, this is all besides the point, want to know a little tip for kissing? It's not that hard, it just takes a bit of time to understand and get used to, and you're (most likely) not going to be able to do it like you want on your first try. Just massage the other persons tongue with your own to start out with, and have confidence; don't be afraid of what you're doing. You'll learn the rest with experience. Good Luck. =D

OK THIS HOTTIE WHATEVER GIRL THAT LEFT A COMMENT RIGHT BEFORE MINE NEEDS TO GET HERSELF STRAIGHT. im 16 years old, and you know what I am content enough with myself not to think that a kiss or sex defines me, I am a virgin and I've never been kissed. but guess what? I dont care. im have high standars....there is nothing in the world that could get me to settle for a guy and have sex with him or do anything even as innocent and playful as kissing if I didnt like him. im perfectly fine with who I am, AND you AND your FRIEND SHOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT HOW FAR U'VE GONE WITH SOMEONE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT DOES NOT AFFECT WHO you R AS A PERSON. so hottie girl whatever whatever....please get a little more mature. your probably a jr. high kid who is still struggling to find herself and will probably wake up 10 years from now and wish she had treated intimacy with a little more sanctity.

If you have sex now, all you'll do is regret it for the rest of your life. I'm all for after marriage sex, because you know what, I have virtues people...

ROLAND

Having sex is not important at your age. Beilieve me when I got into highschool two years ago, it was the IN thing to be a virgin, otherwise comming into highschool not a virgin you got used. Losing your virginity isnt something you want to rush incase you do something you regret. Just go with the flow, My two best friends are still virgins and they're graduating this year with me. Dont sweat it. Your fisrt kiss will be amazing.

get in and try to get one of any one its not like your going to marry them just kiss someone guy or girl its all the same

You'r 15 stay a virgin you have a long ahead of you first kiss ok...what the f*ck you'r should be beteen the ages of 13 and 18 ok... me I was 14...but you do have 'sex' be smart and have a condom ok smart sex is safe sex

no its not a bad thing that all your friends have done everything. trust me...thats why im in the position im in now! fourteen years old and pregnant. I thought I had to be having sex because all my friends were but really sex isnt all that great sometimes! maybe it is a little silly that you havent had your first kiss but if you havent found anyone you'd want to kiss or be with sexually than its okay! I know im just another stranger giving you advice but unless your with someone you really love sex isnt amazing at all. I've been with five guys and im only fourteen. that may sound horrible to you but only two of them were the ones I loved!!! my babydaddy and the one im with now. so listen closely when your with the guy you may want to lose your virginity to...make sure he's the right one!

OKAY
It doesnt matter! Just live you life because it is nothing to be OBSESSED about. When the time comes it will happen with the right person, trust me, you will regret it if you just kiss some guy you don't know or make out with someone while youre drunk.
that 'hottie' chick is so far from right its wrong.hello issues!
anyways. go at your own pace and don't you worry about it, don't rush yourself either just to be like EVERYONE else, that is NOT cool.
STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF, BECAUSE IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT ANYBODY THINKS!

ok I was going to put a lot of stuff down but it looks like other people have said it all for the most part. just wait it out and dont rush it. I did not have my first tell I was 17.. did not even have a date tell then acutally. You do not have to be in a rush at all k.

Well there really is no rush, but just hook you with your friend. Me and my friend, Amy. are both girls and we always hook up. We have hooked up with plenty of guys but experiment with each other. We eat each other our and stuff. If you practice with your friend by the time you have your frst kiss, you will be pro.
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thats what I think you sould do.

hey hey......

dont worry honeys im 69 this year and still a virgin and believe it or not still aint kissed a guy,,, I aint lesbian.. neither am I ugly I had loads of guys ask me out when I was young...

but I kept my virginty and purity up to this age...

OMFG!! You are 69 and nver been kissed nor had sex!?!?!?!?!??!?!? OK, I am almost thirty and is very attractive and have been asked to have sex a lot. My friends keep telling me to wait for the right person because I was sooo very ready. I have had guys to leave my life because I wouldn't have sex with them . I am seriously worried about when is the right time or if the right time will come along. I am now in the decision process of having sex with this guy just for the hell of it now because I am getting older and tired of waiting. My friends keep telling me the right person will come alone and my response will be I don't want to wait til I am like 50. OMFG! I don't want to be THAT old and still never had my first kiss and is a virgin. My obgyn thinks I am the postal female for abstinance. You have slightly put weight on the side of "LETS GET IT ON". I don't think it will ever be a perfect or right type of guy. I don't want to be the "40 year old virgin" I want sex while still young and can enjoy it w.o a guy using viagra.

why dont you girls try to get a group of your friends together to hangout..then plan that each of you will gat dared to kiss someone your interested in.. or just play a fun game of spin the bottle if you really dont care who it is. as far as the s*x issue. you will have plenty of time to do it. dont be a follower be a leader and be proud you girls are virgins because you said it yourself if everyone else is doing it.. dont do it because everyone else is..if a person comes along and you really want to ..then go for it.. im 16 ((not a virgin)) but im not one because I decided it on my own terms not because someone pressured me or because I followed the crowd. I dont recommend it for everyone..you may think your ready but you may not be. just think about it before you act on it. goodluck and I hope this helped a little

First of all that hottie is just rude and mean..n e ways do what you think is right trust me I want to have s*x with my boyfriend too but you have to wait til everything is right and make sure you don't get pregnant is a HUGE thing to worry bout so theirs more to s*x than what you think and my friend had s*x when she was 9 then her boyfriend broke up with her because she was crying because it hurt so please think bout all this first but still I'd have s*x right now so its truelly and really up to you guys and your bfs so have fun!!

Listen honey, virginity is a sacred thing that should not be thrown away like garbage. Nor should your first kiss go to any old guy, just so you can have some street cred. You're 15. You've got decades ahead of you in which to find a life partner. And if he really cares about you, he won't care a smidge if you've never been kissed before. In fact, he should consider it an honor!
I kept my virginity until I was 19, which was last year. My first time was with my boyfriend of 2 years, and we are still firmly together today.
I think you should keep your virginity until you have a partner who
a) loves you unconditionally
b) knows and cares about safe s*x
c) is cool with your family
and
d) won't try and pressure you into it before you're ready.

I hope this helps! <3

Ok, nothing wrong with keeping your virginity. I'm waiting until I'm married -_- (no comment) but theres nothing wrong with kissing guys. I had my first kiss when I was 3 -_- (no comment again). You don't have to worry about saving your kisses, just save your virginity. Virginity is something you should be proud to still have. It tells the other girls that your not a sl*ut and that your proud to be one.

Wait on virginity. Don't wait on kisses.