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Someone help im crying

Asked by fau 4 months ago, 8 answers.

Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me on the 28th and said he was leaving to join the marines. But I just found out that he broke up with me for some other girl. He lied to my face and told me he loved me and would never hurt me or leave me. I really...

want to confront him but I don't want to get the girl who told me about him in trouble. What should I do I feel so stupid. He played me
Please help

Answered by tinatodder4 on Jul 06, 2008, 08:05PM
| 2337 answers.

to be honest, ALL GUYS say those things to you because it's what every girl wants to hear... they may be sincere when they say those things at the time, but guys can't predict the future... it's possible to fall out of love. you're only like 15. you're going to date MANNNY MANY guys and have MANNNY heartbreaks. you have your whole life to try and find "the one." you just have to talk to him to get full closure, accept the he wasn't the one, and move on. we all go through some type of grieving process when we come out of a relationship but eventually you'll get over him.. it could take 1 week to 1 year.. but give it time. time heals all wounds. keep your head up. just remember, life goes on.

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Answered by icekittenz on Jul 06, 2008, 07:57PM
| 42 answers.

I would have to say something.. he doesnt have to know who you heard it from.
that is bogus I hate guys sumtimes they are such jerks.
I would probably end up going to jail for what I did.
but dont do nething like that
you are sooo pretty you can get a new guy in like no time
find a re-bound guy show him he isnt nething to u
you dont need him

Answered by sexyboy123 on Jul 06, 2008, 07:59PM
| 34 answers.

ummm I think you should try your hardest to get ova him because hwe didnt just lie to you when he said he was going to the marines but he lied to you when he said he loved you. Because what in there right mind would somebody say they love you and leave you for another girl. But there are other boys out there and I bet there better than him. Your a pretty girl you could have anybody you want forget that loser

Answered by dangersteve316 on Jul 06, 2008, 08:04PM
| 184 answers.
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You should confront him but you should talk to the "girl" about your plan first so she doesn't think that you stabbed her in the back.
Mainly though, you need to confront him or it'll cause you major trauma from a lack of closure. That kind of stuff can cause severe psychological damage.

Answered by zippo_zayne on Jul 06, 2008, 08:23PM
| 7 answers.

ummm wow, you are not stupid he is. why would he break up with you? your so pretty. he sounds like an A1 dumbass.

now, consider the following:
1.) just be glad you didnt fall any deeper and his fake love.

2.) when you find the one ull know, trust me.

3.)dont do anything stupid like drink, cut, or drugs.

4.) listen to sum music, not that emo stuff either, try: incubus, motley crue, beck, aerosmith, or even some up-beat gangster rap, such as: eazy-e, N.W.A., dr. dre.

Answered by erikka on Jul 06, 2008, 08:28PM
| 13 answers.

hmmm.

if hes going to lie to you like that then he doesnt deserve you.

Answered by aperfectcircle on Jul 06, 2008, 08:55PM
| 43 answers.

I'd say confront him. Make sure you're not crying to him,but be straight out how you feel. Tell him he should of been honest in the first place,then aybe things wouldn't had gotten messy.. If she gets in trouble than that wouldn't be your fault..It would be the guys.
He's the one going out with her,not you.

Answered by kitkatcrazykid on Jul 06, 2008, 10:28PM
| 4 answers.

well I would confront him... but before you do I would ask the friend that told you about him she didnt mind you asking him...

sometimes when people say they love they do not really mean it... specially in early/young relationships... I would advise not saying that you love you boyfriend or not believing he loves you until he proposes to you... it will save you a lot of heart brake...

stay strong girl... youll be fine... trust in god... hes here for ya!!!

im always here to talk =D

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