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Am I a slut for sleeping with three men in a row?

Asked by caroline1234 about 1 year ago, 28 answers.

Last night, I went over to Katie's home, it was her boyfriend's birthday. 4 boy classmates (including her boyfriend) and me went (I was the only girl invited). So after a couple hours, he started talking about sex,and Katie and her boyfriend went up to...

Katie's room, and I was left alone with the 3 friends.. the boys wanted to have sex, it was obvious (me too :p) So I wanted the 3 of them to play a simple dice game, the one who wins gets to have sex with me.. Josh won, and he got undressed, etc.. he didn't wear a condom because I was wearing a diaphragm.. after he came, Benjamin (already undressed) asked whether he could also have sex, but before I could I answer, he was already in me, so I thought fine, everybody was having fun right, and I didn't see any harm, but after he came too, Adrian did the same thing as Benjamin, and he came too.. To be honest I did have fun, but I felt guilty at the same time (this is only the second time of me having sex)(but three boys in me in a row?) Am I a slut? sob..

Answered by sikashimmer on Feb 21, 2007, 10:18PM
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Slut is a pejorative term for a person (usually female) who is more sexually promiscuous than is deemed socially acceptable.

I personally think 3 men in one night is a little over the top, but to each their own. I have the same concern as Locoluna that you didn't use protection. While the diaphragm prevents pregnancy it does not protect against STDs.

So you had sex with 3 guys, what if they each have had sex with 3 girls? So you've "had sex" with at least 9 people. (but what if those girls had partners and their partners had partners and so on.) So you see the cycle and how STDs can quickly spread to hundreds of people. You should see a gynecologist ASAP after any unprotected intercourse and get a STD test. Abstain from unprotected intercourse until you get your results.
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Answered by boredom24 on Feb 21, 2007, 07:27PM
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I don't think you are. you jsut wanted to have a good time.

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Answered by locoluna on Feb 21, 2007, 07:34PM
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ooo tuff topic but I honestly dont agree with it. Your not a slut becos if you were doing this sort of thing every weekend then id say slut, but it was only once and for fun. But my concern is the they all didnt use protection, diaphrams arent very safe and any one of them could have an std which could have been past onto you. You have to be more safe when it comes to sex, thats 3 different guys cumming inside of you! its disgusting and gross, dont make it a habit! you can blame it on being young and stupid I guess.

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Answered by tatiyana on Apr 30, 2007, 11:21AM
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I wouldnt say your a slut exactly because like sumone else said, its not like you do it evry w/e.. but honey ure repretation probably got slaughtered... for future advice... DONT do it again... or atleast use a rubber damn.
how old were you when this happened ?? if you dont mind me asking

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Answered by karmen446 on Aug 02, 2007, 11:51AM
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your NOT A SLUT you JUST WANTED TO HAVE A FUN TIME EVERYONE DOES SOMETHING CRAZY EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE SO MY ANSWER IS NO

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Answered by kute_lady123 on Dec 07, 2007, 09:39PM

well me personally I think that was just outrageous!!! having sex with three boys at time>>I'm not even going to lie yeah you a slut!!!

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Answered by whateverlolawants on Dec 27, 2007, 01:51AM
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Don't worry about whether or not someone else would consider you a slut. Just worry about whether YOU'RE okay with your behavior. Are you really okay with it? Are you respecting yourself, living for your goals, doing what makes you happy, being responsible, protecting yourself from pregnancy, STDs, and emotional harm, and living according to your values? If so, then good for you. If not, think harder about your actions and how you can stop doing things that aren't good for you. That's all that matters- not if some strangers or the kids at your school think you're a "slut."

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Answered by funadvice on Dec 29, 2007, 12:23AM
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a little bit yeah. that's kinda messed up but your not a total slut.

Answered by babi_lov3 on Feb 21, 2008, 05:29PM
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yea

Answered by kal on Mar 17, 2008, 11:43PM
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yes you are so slut. do not do it again

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Answered by tinkerbritt on Mar 27, 2008, 01:49PM
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yea that is kind of slutty

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Answered by erasmus27 on May 26, 2008, 04:29AM
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you're not a slut but you are turning into one. you might as well laid back and let them all do you at the same time. keep your legs closed. stop putting out. if you keep letting guys have sex with you then you will be a slut. so stop now and just keep your legs closed. and keep your pants on. dont give people head. just stop.

Answered by thex13thxchild on May 27, 2008, 03:52PM
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your actions could be labiled slutty but you yourself I'ld say not
sluts don't feel remorse XD
carful you don't go too far
you don't want to loose yourself

Answered by rockchick on Jun 05, 2008, 03:33PM
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That was a slutty thing to let them do to you but no you are not a slut at heart because you are thinking about it and a slut wouldnt !

Answered by hollie25 on Jun 09, 2008, 03:21PM
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no your not a slut, I have had sex with three guys before the night was over, if you had fun that is your business, I loved it. I had fun too. do what you want to do if it makes you happy. I love having sex it doesnt mean I am a slut,

Answered by thecool on Jun 21, 2008, 11:06PM
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^ Yea it does lolol.

Answered by blinkingofyou on Jun 26, 2008, 12:28PM
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nope,but you are an idiot

Answered by charlotterichelle on Jul 24, 2008, 06:03PM
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Its abit but suppose everyones there own person and can do what they want people should judge you but I agree with the girl above you me you really stupid for doing it because those 3 lads are probley braging about it and calling you a slut!

sorry but its 1/10 im right!

Answered by patriot_of_bosnia on Jul 30, 2008, 05:44PM
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In lament terms, whats the opposite of no, its that word I'm looking for, oh its YES!

Answered by kaker1234 on Aug 11, 2008, 10:03PM
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it doesent matter what I say its what the guys are going to tell there friends thats going to end up that you are a slt. see man are dogs they will go and tell the guys that they know that you are easy and that they all banged you so you already lost your name and gained a bad rep. congrats

soory but its true

Answered by hollywoodundead1 on Aug 20, 2008, 08:51AM
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I am sorry, but that seems a but sluttish to me.
Three boys?
Are you nuts?
And if you tell anyone else that you did, they will think you are a slut and make nasty rumors.
You shouldn't of been such a push-over.
What is wrong with kids these days?
Don't they ever think of the consequences?
I guess not.
So, my answer is yes. That is slutty.

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