Sleepover with boys

okay so I just had a sleep over at my girl friend's house and there was two boys there. My parents found out that they were there and they think that I did stuff with them or one could have attacked me or they would have gotten high. I'm so mad! Those...

boys are my friends and I would never do anything with them! Don't my parents trust me enough that I wouldn't do anything with them? How can I get my parents to trust me?

my mother would never let me go to a sleepover, with guys spending the night there.
that's too much of a temptation.
of course there going to think you did something.

at two of my friends houses, we have little parties-well get together's sorta- and guys stay.. and trust me, all of them are wanting to do something.

your parents have every reason to be concerned.

you should have told them they were coming, you lied- so why would they trust you?

OMG...BOYS @ a SLEEPOVER!!! just kidding, I have had sleepovers on the beach, in a cabin while on vacation, and boys are always there. However just because they were there does't mean that your 'doing' anything. But hey, if your parents are really uncomfortable about apologize and reassure them that nothing happened. Or just let it go, they don't need to know EVERYTHING that happened. Right?

They might trust you, but they dont trust the guys

ask them ???

I agree with iloveteddy, they may trust you, but maybe they dont know the guys you were with and think they are like a bad influence on you. think about it, if you did know the boys and you slept there when they were there, dont you think that they could have done something 2 you while you slept? those kind of things happen, you never know, just be glad that you weren't with strangers...or perverts...

yea I guess my parents would be okay with the idea if they knew the two boys, but I think they would trust me enough to make the right descisions. It's not like I didn't know the two boys or anything and we did sleep in different rooms. And do my parents really think that two 13 year old boys would do drugs in my friend's house?!

A lot of 13 year old boys (and girls) would do drugs in anybodies house they could. Your parents are just trying to protect you, try not to be too mad at them. Try to remember that they were young once also and they (especially your dad) do know how teenage boys minds work.

I agree. when I was in 7th grade, I suspected that some of the kids at least tried drugs. some had even been arrested. you never know. it doesn't matter your age, if you have access to them, anyone can do drugs.

I also have guy friends who sleep over here sometimes. My mom feels suspicious whenever they come around, but I explain to her that they are my friends and that we won't do anything that she's thinking of. I told her to trust me and she did. But in your case, you lied. so maybe your parents were offended. you should have told them that there were boys coming over. and you should have introduced them to your parents. well anyway, they would only get mad at your boy friends. hmmm...try and apologize and tell them that the next time you sleep over you would inform them that they would come over.

apologize and let them no nothing happened...I agree with iloveteddy...they probably don't trust the guys...

that was gay alex