Sister problems

SOO MY OLDER SISTER IS LIVING WITH ME AND MY PARENTS
SHE WAS 2 KIDS AND IS PREGNANT WITH THE 3RD..

WE ALWAYS FIGHT ALWAYS AND WE SAY REALLY MEAN THINGS
TO EACHOTHER. AND EVERYTIME WE FIGHT IM THE ONE TO SEND
HER AN EMAIL OR TALK TO HER AND SAY...

SORRY BUT SHE NEVER
SAIS ANYTHING BACK...

I FEEL LIKE SHE COULD CARELESS...

TONIGHT SHE GOT MAD BECAUSE SHE TOLD ME SHE HATED
THE GIRL WHO IS WITH HER EX AND I TOLD HER THE ONLY TIME
PEOPLE HATE SOME ONE IS WHEN THEY ARE JELOUS OF THEM
BECAUSE HATE IS A STRONG WORD... AND SHE GOT ALL MAD
I TOLD HER THAT SHE WASNT JELOUS OF HER JUST OF THE
SITUATION BECAUSE SHE WOULD GO OUT OF HER WAY TO
LOOK THAT GIRL UP ON MYSPACE...

SHE GOT MAD AND SAID THAT WHY WAS I TELLING HER THAT.
SHE SAID I WAS HER SISTER AND THAT I WAS SUPPOSED TO
UNDERSTAND HER NOT BE MEAN... SO I TOLD HER I WAS HER
SISTER AND IWAS SUPPOSED TO BE HONEST WITH HER..

POINT IS THAT SHE SAID SHE WANTED ME OUT OF HER LIFE AND
THAT SHE DIDNT NEED ME... IM TIRED OF BEING THE ONE TO PUT
THE PRIDE ASIDE SOO IM NOT going to TRY AND TALK TO HER

BUT WAS I WRONG OR RIGHT!?
AND H0W D0 I ST0P US FR0M FIGHTING!???

well. I don't think she means it when she said she wanted you out of her life. But I can understand where you're coming from, and at the same time I can understand where she is coming from. I'm sure she does dislike whoever is with her ex-boyfriend. Maybe next time instead of trying to correct her try to just show her some compassion and know that she's upset and just be there for her...

Sometimes, truth isn't what's needed. Sometimes, just listening and understanding how a person feels means a lot to them. Your sister may already know why she's upset and just wants somebody to listen to her and show some understanding and sympathy for her. : )