Single mom age 22 needs help moving on from cheating boyfriend

Im 22 years old and I have 2 daughters. Well I had a boyfriend for 4 years now and the last 3 years I know he cheated on me, First I saw him sleeping with a female in our bedroom then 6 months later he was interested with someone else while we had our daughter and I...

was pregnant with our second one, and he came back to me before our daughter(second) was born. I noticed that when I was in a relationship with him I seen condoms in the car, he would come hm late like 5 or 8 am in the morning and girls would call him and hang up if I answered.

I tried and he also tried to work things out with me but we yell at eachother, call eachother names. All he does is work, sleep and play video games and when his friends call him to go out, hes OUT of the door so quick!I told him life has to change if you have a family now..isn't that right? I told him that I need help around the house b/c I get tierd too ex: washing the dishes, doing laundry, taking care of the kids, etc... and he told me " thats your job, I don't do that, I don't like it when you boss me around" He doesn't get it Im a full time mom and I need help too right?

I am so in love with this guy and its crazy, its hard for me to move on with my life. well its been 5 weeks now since I kicked him out agian and I'm hoping this is the final! I just need help moving on and needing a lot of advice, I'm having a hard time on my own with my 2 daughters and its hard to know that es enjoying life right with bars, girls and friends.

Is it just me thats casuing him to cheat on me?
I need help and advice! what and how do I move on?

of course it's not you what you can do it get your self a babysitter and go on some dates .Get back in the dating world.Take little time off from being a mommy your'e still young

I think you need to get the f**k a way from him befor you get some kind of HIV. And if he really loved you he wouldnt cheat on u. I think you need to leave befor you get in deeper!!!!

well if you know he doesn't love you then move on because this guy just wanted to use you not to be mean or anything if he cant take care of kids how is he going to be a father and you need to tell your kids tell them why and that you are a special women there a plenty I mean pleanty of fish in the sea you just need to throw that net in the water and find the one that you know is going to be with you and wants to become a dad and hunny if I were you I would have moved on a long time ago most people that we think we love turn out to be a**holes my bad if he just wants to fool around thats not what love is so ill tell you what START Fishing START over with a new loving honorable sweet caring guy Good Luck!!!

I know how it feels to be in love with an abusive jerk who doesn't care at all about your feelings. He doesn't know the meaning of the words "respect" or "fidellity". So, you have to learn to respect yourself and be faithful to God's best for your life. God does have a plan for your very best good, but this guy is abusing you!

The beginning of freedom is detachment from the source of the pain. When you realize that you deserve soooooooo much better than what he's dishing out, and when you realize that there's someone sooooooooo much better than the guy that's using and abusing you, you will then begin to claim your inner strength and power to move on. Think about the total picture of all he's done to hurt you. His cheating is the ultimate insult and it's extremely dangerous to your health. Love doesn't treat you like that and you know it! If he doesn't want to help out with the household chores, but instead wants to run around playing the partyboy, he's a lousy example for your children to see. You don't want them to think that it's okay for a man to treat his family that way!!

You will get over him! And you'll wish you'd done it sooner. Maybe God will work a miracle and your man will change, but what if he doesn't? God gave all of us free will to do whatever we choose to do, and God let's us all make our own decisions.

My advice is for you to get as far away from this abusive jerk as fast as possible and don't ever regret leaving him for a moment of your sweet, precious life!