Shouldn't I feel "it"??

Everytime I make out with my boyfriend I am like always on top of him. I'm like in his lap. Shouldn't he get a boner or something if he's horny? I never feel anything "pop" up. My friend told me about the first time she sat on her boyfriend whilethey...

madeout and she felt it pop up. Does it mean that my boyfriend is small since I don't feel anything? Does it mean that he doesn't get boners because he isn't turned on? Should I do something to turn him on more?

he might just be small or you might jsut need to stroke it

I am in the same situation but I am the GUY in this situation. We are both 16, and I get very arroused as soon as she lays on top of me and looks at me and starts rubbing my arm and stuff. at first I was very embarrased because you could see it through my jeans, and Iw asnt sure if that'd turn her off or not.

But considor that your boyfriend is nervous. A wide ammount of males, even adults, get nervous during intercourse and can't "get it up." this is a huge problem with a lot of first-timers, and could very likely be the situation out of sex also. You have to make him feel more comftorable and secure, he probably feels like your attacking him and its too fast for him, so he's nervous and his brain isnt really paying attention to that stuff.

I dont suggest you slow down but I suggest you make it more personal. Grab his hand and rub his fingers, touching speaks louder than words. Look in his eyes and just smile and laugh at nothing, make him feel comftorable, and tell him he's amazing. Tell him he makes you feel so good. Give him 1 single kiss, and look in his eyes again. Go slow, but not too slow, keep the same pace but make him feel as if he is there too.

I think he might be used to it. I mean I been wit my girl for damn near 2 years and like sometimes when we kiss I dont get a boner because im so used to it that it isnt that big of deal anymore, not that it doesnt turn me on its just im so used to it.

You never know he could be small just if you wanting to know stuff like that tell him you want to go farther and he will more than likely feel the same way