Should I spank a childs bare butt

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Should I spand a childs bare behind

Answered by princexx on Aug 07, 2008, 06:27PM
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no!!...spanking might be illegal now so I would go with time outs in a corner...they arnt alowed to talk play or do anything they just have to stare at the wall...and you go by there age if they are 10 they get 10 minutes...if they are 5 they get 5 minutes...see what im saying? and when the times up you get them to tell you what they did wrong and say sorry for it.

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Answered by danymarie on Aug 07, 2008, 07:42PM
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NO!!
thats so old fashion, and some people say old fashion is ok but then again they did used to whip and hang people too.
it's illegal, it's humilianting, it's illegal too.

Answered by djwager on Aug 07, 2008, 07:47PM
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how is it illegal? anyways I would say go for it, why do you think all the girls are getting pregnant at a young age and screwing up there lives... because they had no real disciplin as a child, same with guys thinking they run the streets and getting shot like idiots thinking they are cool... its not just media, its how the country has forced everybody to control themselves, and loosing control of there kids...

Answered by ty on Aug 08, 2008, 03:22PM
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It isnt illegal... Physical abuse is illegal and a spank isnt physical abuse... however while a tap on the kid's butt might not be the worst thing on earth, I dont see what a kid is going to learn by you taking off their pants and smacking them apart from humiliation...
And and as for girls getting pregnant at a young age now because physical punishment has gone down? The average age of people getting pregnant has gone up over the last 100 years...

Answered by bulletboy on Aug 08, 2008, 07:40PM
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NO it is a bad thing to do it will make you kid think he can hit people all the time.

Answered by dreamychick_2005 on Aug 08, 2008, 10:23PM
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Don't listen to that crap. Spanking is perfecctly fine. It's not like your beating them to death. And hitting does not teach hitting is ok. It teachs them not to do whatever it was they were doing that they shouldnt have been. We smacked my neices pampered butt when she hit my grandfather. She was startled but unhurt. She got the point though. She dosn't hit him anymore. Just do what you believe is right.

Answered by shawnie9 on Aug 10, 2008, 08:37PM
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There are other ways to discipline children without spanking. Just because parents do not spank their children doesn't mean they aren't firmly and effectively-probably more effectively-disciplining their children. Anyway, you should never spank a child's bare backside. That is crude and humiliating and shows that you have not put a lot of thought, effort or patience into discipling you child.

Answered by colethky on Aug 11, 2008, 06:04PM
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First off, it is not illegal to spank your child, UNLESS you leave a mark (this was learned from a social worker visiting a neighbor).

Secondly, for somethings spanking I think is fine. Like if your child decides to run into a road after you scream 10 times at them to stop and they don't listen. They deserve some physical punishment.

Thirdly, spanking is technically not discipline, it is punishment. Why would you want to punish your child unless it is something extreme that they did?

If you want your child to learn restraint then you need to teach it to them, spanking will not do that. Most parents spank because they are angry not because they want to teach their child a lesson.

They best thing to do would be time out and then after (when they calm down and YOU calm down) talk to them about what happened and let them know why they can't do that again. This really does work it just takes time and practice, and lots and lots of patience.

Answered by smallfry99 on Aug 12, 2008, 10:36AM

No its a poor child

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