Should I see my father after 11 years?

my father,,sexually assualted my mother in 1997 ,,when I was 6...and went to prison,,,this all happened after there divorce was finall,,he got out in 2002,,and I am not allowed to see him until I am 18,,,he has not made any attempt to find out about...

me,,,but do you think it would be a good idea for me to go and see him when I turn 18,,,or not

thats all up to you.
if that was me I still would.
you have the right no put him in your life or not.

no. hes your father. but he sexually assulted your mom. if he does that to your mom there is a chance that he could do that same to you. also, if he hasnt tried to find out anything about you, then there is no point in trying to find out after him.

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If you feel comfortable being around him.. remember he is your father, and people make mistakes, he may possibly have changed, and he may have not.. but it all depends on if you want to... but remember everyone deserves the right to be forgiven. :]

well... if he wants to see you.. he will find you..
and it's up to you if you want to see him

It is totally upto you weither you want to meet him or not, just remember, he committed sexual assault so you have to protect yourself just based off of what you know he was capable of. So when you see him atleast for the first while, don't go alone, go with a friend or two, or atleast meet in a public place. I don't want to scare you from seeing him, you just have to stay safe. I hope you atlest meet him if you want too.

Good luck - Flytier

ummm... it really is up to you. did you have a good past with him when you were younger? if I were you I'd talk to your mum first, about this situation, because she might be worried if the same thing that happened to her will happen to you!! what flytier said, if you want to meet him...I'd say its best if youu went with someone - just to be on the safe side. but since he has been in prison for a while...there is a chance where he's probably changed!!

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11 years is a long time not to see your daughter. he might be avoiding you because he thinks its actually best for you, like it might be too painful or damaging. People make mistakes in moments of weakness. If you want to see him, then meet him in a public place. Nothing will change the fact that he is your father, and you are entitled to a relationship with him if both of you want that. Just be smart about it.

ya take somone with you or write him off hes an animal no affense but you dont want him to assult you so take someone