Should I move in with my girlfriend?

Life is about Loving each other Asked by milo555 5 months ago, 1 answer.

we used to live together when I lived in same city. then we moved out bc we fought a lot. then I moved back home bc of a job oppotunity. we broke up then. then we got back together and been doing the long distance thing for 2 years now. she does not like...

the fact that I have a few close female friends that I've known for most of my life, one in particular. It puts me in an awkward siuation. I feel like im always in the middle. we have broken up a few times during the past 2 years but always manage to find our way back to each other. we love each other very much. plus im very close to her family. I've never had that before. I've been told that I act differently around her like im trying to hard to impress her. she loves me very much and I do her as well. but why am I so confused? I dont want to move her here and she leaves all she knows. what if things dont work out? id feel like a jerk. we have a great time together but is that enuff? I dont want to neglect the people who are close to me.
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Answered by laura418 on Jun 29, 2008, 06:18PM
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If you really loved her and wanted to live with her, you wouldnt be asking that question. You would just know. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and lived together for about 1. Yea we fight all the time but its only because were always together. its not always good to live with your boyfriend/girlfriend even tho you feel the need to be with them every second of the day. people need space. And its a proven fact that after you've been with someone for 12 months, it kinda starts to fall apart a little bit because you guys know eachother in and out and theres nothing else for you to learn about that person... Somtimes its bad to know everything about your partner because thats when the trust thing comes in. I dont even let my boyfriend talk to other girls and hes knows better then to. Its an insecurity that 90% of girls have. We can't help it. we only get mad when you talk to other girls or even hang out with them because we care about you soo much and we feel like even tho we trust you and you wouldnt cheat, what if your at a bar one day all fcked up and some hot a$$ little hoee comes around and starts hittin on you and just throws herself at you. what are you going to do? who knows. some will push her away but some will just say fck it, my girl will never find out so who cares? thats how we think!! my boyfriends family and I are very close too, its the best. but that doesnt mean anything. dont just hold onto someone because you feel its the best thing that ever happened to you and your so close with her family and you feel like youll never find that again. I KNOW I wont find that again .. its hard to. but long distance is hardand I dont blame your girl for feeling how she does. because I was with my ex for not too long, and I went on vacation to my home town and I didnt see him for weeks, its sucked I missed him so much. but guess what happened? he fckd my BESTFRIEND. but yeahh .. hit me up mann I feel you I know where your comin from!

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