Should I make my move now?

Asked by fau 2 months ago, 5 answers.

I had talked to this extremely beautiful girl all summer, just to befriend someone cause I went through a rough period and I had only one guy friend to support me through it. Two weeks before school started, despite saying she was going to hang out with...

me and my guy friends, she got a high school boyfriend. We've been in school only a week, and she never returned my phone calls to come hang out with me. Now getting online tonight, I see that she's single after breaking up with her boyfriend I suppose. Should I make my move tomorrow or give it a while?

Answered by vannilla702 on Sep 03, 2008, 11:51PM
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give it a while but not too long id say a week
good luck hun

Answered by stephanief987 on Sep 04, 2008, 12:21AM
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Nope - its too soon, she's probley too vulnerable right now. Guys make this mistake all the time, give her time and space, she JUST got out of a relationship.

Answered by stopandsmelltheroses on Sep 04, 2008, 06:51AM
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tell her you've missed her this past week, and leave it at that for a bit. if she sort of hints around it a bit more, I think that would mean she's willing to consider you as a boyf, but probably not straight away. so give it... yeah, about ten days. it WAS a pretty short relationship, so unless something happened in that time and left her a bit upset, I would say after ten days or so, she should be fine to approach.

or you could get to know her as a friend a bit more, but that's probably not what you want to hear.

Stef

Answered by princexx on Sep 04, 2008, 08:34AM
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Be her friend, talk to her let her know you support her and are there for her.
Then when she isnt emotional about it make your move but dont wait to long, I'd say 4-7 days.
GoodLuck!!

Answered by moombers on Sep 05, 2008, 12:44AM
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Just don't go past the point of no return. Don't let her share her deepest feelings with you, or else you've gained too much trust. And then it's all ruined...

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