Should I lose my virginity

I love giving advice...but now I need some of my own...

Me and my b/f been going out for about a year now ...and weve been talking about having sex...like it feels right...and we been expermenting for a while but never went all the way...

this is a tricky question, but if you feel you are ready then I would go for it. make sure that you feel confidant and have no inhibitions beforehand. also make sure that your boyfriend is the one you want to share this important first with, make sure that you will not regret being so intimate with him so soon. but I wish you luck and I hope that you are able to decide for yourself

id say no
just because you never know what might happen
and why not wait- if you get married then you have all the time in the world for that such of thing!

I waited a 1 and a 1/2 to finally lose my virginity with my boyfriend (EX-now) - it felt right at the time...but after that...things changed and we eventually broke up. Sex ruins things..I would wait.

well I think you should wait...
im a virgin to and im proud of the because I maid the right choice
I almost gave it to this guy that I was madly in love with but it turns out that guys
are dicks and I was lucky to not have don it..
all of my friends have lost it by now and they all regret it and thats because most of them are still with the guy they lost it with...
I would say just wait...
you wont regret anything...

I lost my virginity with my boyfriend, who is now my EX, and to tell you the truth, it may seem right at the time, but it really isn't... cause sure things are close to perfect between ya'll now, but I sure you nothing stays close to perfect forever! think it through.. get married first and then lose it, cause people never really learn till you go through it, so don't make the mistake! many things can result of this... it may seem like no big deal, but it really is!

if you love him ( yes )

Wait about 2 years. Now it is too early for you, and you will loose the happiness of sex if you do it earlier than the optimal.

It's completely up to you, I had sex with my boyfriend and we got closer, but it's all about when your ready.

Missindiana & damaged pollita are 100% right. Sex changes a relationship, and because you are so young, its usually never a good change. Because young teens have sex for all the wrong reason! I guarantee you, that once you bring sex into the picture, I'll give you up to 6 mos. for the relationship to start falling apart.

Bad Reasons for sex too soon
· A need for sex.
· You want the person to love you.
· Social pressure to perform.
· Nothing more to talk about.
· Boredom.
· A curiosity to find out if there's any chemistry.
· You want to make someone else jealous.
· To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner.
· You're challenging a dare.
· An attempt to solidify the relationship.

Once one engages in premarital sex as a teen, one begins to have relationship problems. Sex hinders communication. In most teen relationships, sex becomes the focus, and other aspects of the relationship have no chance to develop. S

*Sex is NOT love*

Wait till marriage.