Should I let him finger me and give him a handjob?!?!

Im 14 years old, and Theres this kid, and we both like eachother a lot. but he lives over an hour away. and hes coming to visit me soon, and wants to do a couple things : fingering and handjob. and I kinda want to too, but im not sure. what do you think...

I should do?!?!

if you dont date-
then no- I dont think you should.
you'll be ready when your not asking this question.
if your wondering, then your clearly not ready.

if you want to then go for it .. (: I no I would .. it depends on how much you no the lad and trust him though

I wud it depends how well you know him.. its not sex or oral so its not that bad!

if your not sure,dont do it,kids give into peer pressure so easily, but if you know him well and trust him,go for it. but use a condom.

How sad that girls are so willing to do whatever a boy wants them to just because they like them. If your not in a relationship with him, why would you? Boys that say they "like" you, then want to do stuff with you/to you, are boys who dont respect girls. They only want to use them. Doing what he wants isnt going to make him like you more, its only telling him that you are desperate, and will do whatever it takes to get a boy. Your showing him that you have no self respect, so why would he respect you?

if you guys really like eachother and you could trust him well enough and think your ready then you do what you want. not what people tell you. we all have different oppions