Should I let him?

Asked by fau 5 months ago, 7 answers.

Alright, well I'm 14.
I got a boyfriend and lately he's been bugging me about fingering.
He wants do it really badly.
I don't want him to do it and I tell him that but I guess he just doesnt understand, cause he keeps asking.
I told him I want to do...

it beacuse I want to do it not beacuse YOU want me too and when I feel like I'm ready.
He said alright, good answer.
*Few Hours Later*
Him:Are you ready?
Me:No...-__-
Him:Come on let me do it, it will feel real good and I'll be gentle.
Me:I'm sorry I wont let you finger me. It seems like you want to do it pretty badly..
so why dont you find some other chick that's willing to let you finger her.
Byee, ily.

Then he sends me a text.
Him: OMG! Im sorry I dont want that please I'll shut up about it. IM SORRY.
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Wth?! Lol
He wants to do it really bad.
Haha its pretty funny to me.
The next day after I said go find another girl, I come to school the first thing he says
to me when I see him is "Are you ready?!"
I was thinking like ARE YOU FxING SERIOUS!?
I just walked away.
Okay, its getting kinda annoying; him asking like every hour of the day.
So should I just let him do it ?

Answered by shawnlver on Jun 03, 2008, 09:29PM
| 93 answers.

NO! not until you're ready. And if he keeps ridng you about it then maybe he just wants you for sex and fingering! Sorry but maybe thats the truth/

Answered by cutiepie88 on Jun 03, 2008, 10:32PM
| 124 answers.

No! Don't let him run your life. Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. And make sure he understands that. And if he keeps bugging you, there are plenty of guys out there who won't. Good luck.

Answered by zorbot on Jun 04, 2008, 03:44AM
| 893 answers.
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No definite no! He doesn't stop then just break up. Nobody should pressure anybody into doing something they don't want to do. He's being really immature and a jerk about it. Tell him if he doesn't stop you'll find someone who can actually respect your decisions!

Answered by gunnerdude on Jun 04, 2008, 04:25AM
| 18 answers.

hey im a guy and on the same sorta subject dunno wether we ready yet but your boyfriend sounds like a bit of a player I know as most of my friends are im the out cast int he group if your boyfriend was decent then he should understand that your not ready and be patient I've been with my girlfriend for a good 7-8 months now and havent once mentioned sex as I know she is not ready , dont do anything unless your 110% comfortable with it

Answered by aliikatt on Jun 04, 2008, 04:27AM
| 8 answers.

I agree with everyone else,if your not ready dont do it.Give him a warning if you ask next time or something he will have to stand in line for a new girl.
from how you put the question it was pretty funny and I couldnt stop laughing on how much he asked..sorry but for sure like other people said dont let him pressure or force you into doing something you dont want to do.

:Daliikatt

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 04, 2008, 09:22AM
| 5958 answers.

How can you even think about giving in to someone who only wants you for one thing? Just because he is your boyfriend, doesnt mean you have to do EVERYTHING he wants you to do. To me he isnt a good, decent, boyfriend, he is a jerk! If he cared about you in the least, he wouldnt be pressuring you. He isnt going to give up until either you, give in (which would be a HUGE mistake) or dump him (which would be the smartest thing to do) Love equals respect, and this guy is far from having any respect for you! Dont be a fool, because I guarantee, YOU WILL REGRET IT!

Answered by melisakelley on Jun 04, 2008, 12:19PM

for sure, DONT EVER LET SOMEONE PUSH YOU TO DO SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT READY FOR. If you let him get away with this next it will be sex, and will you let him do that too?

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